Hello from Richard Roe
Update from Joe re: Blog, Sun Sept 11: I spent some time reformatting the photos on the previous blogs and renaming the blogs (adding Photos Part I, II, III and IV to the titles) for easier reference. It may slow down the downloading of the blog this one time for some. Now that I've got the photo loading figured out, I'll post some more photos of the Manhattan Beach "Meet the Senior Bachelor Event." Most of them will be from Umberto. Also, your comments on the MB Event are greatly appreciated. I realize that the initial sign up on Thursday and my estimation of times for your small group meetings were the biggest snags. For that I sincerely apologize. The good news for Chicago is that I think I have a better system in place to make it run more smoothly (so the Ladies from Chicago have to thank the Ladies from Manhattan Beach!) Once again, thank you for your patience and indulgence and for your kind comments about my family. We all had a blast meeting you! Look below for some new photos.
-joe
From Richard:
A few observations: For the current status of Chicago, please read my comment in the blog below this one and posted Friday at 6:08. To Lois, thanks for explaining the Event in MB was WAY MORE than just meeting me, as it will be in Chicago in your comments Saturday, Sept. 10 at 1:32 am. . The real story was so many AMAZING women meeting each other and making what I believe will be new, lifelong friends!! We're already talking about a reunion on the Alaskan cruise next summer!! And, yes, the most painful part of this Journey will be over the next 4 weeks. I have said consistently that there are so many wonderful women to choose from that it will be just guesswork at this point. For those of you who have sent in materials, and/or e-mails, that have not been acknowledged, I am doing the best I can, and I remain more than 1,000 e-mails behind-mainly due to the Oprah rerun 2 weeks ago. I'm running as fast as I can.. I also enjoyed anonymous' comment of Saturday, Sept. 10 at 12:35. Thanks again for the nice comments on this blog, and let's keep talking!! Richard Roe
We stopped by the Ayres Hotel to thank Ann, Sal and the Staff and they said to say "Hello!" They really enjoyed hosting the Event and miss the Ladies.

PS- Here is a recap of the newspaper articles of "The Meet the Senior Bachelor Event":
"The Beach Reporter", Friday, September 6, 2005
"The Daily Breeze", September 3, 2005
(The "Daily Breeze" article has now been archived by the newspaper and will cost you money to view. I'll post it here if I can.)
Saturday, September 03, 2005
By Kristin S. Agostoni Daily Breeze
Bachelorettes flock to area to meet traveling MB man
In a quest that began on "Oprah," Richard Roe is looking for six single travel companions "fit, fun and over 40" to accompany him around the world.
Some got dolled up in strapless sundresses and stilettos, while others dressed down in jeans and summer capris. One made the six-hour drive from Rio Vista, while another booked a morning flight from Scottsdale, Ariz. A few brought girlfriends, yet some kept the trip a secret.
But each shared a common, dreamy goal of winning a few minutes with the eligible bachelor. Or, perhaps more importantly, getting the tanned, tall Manhattan Beach man to remember their names. Considering the size of the crowd, the latter task seemed to be easier said than done.
Hawthorne's Ayres Hotel was teeming with women Thursday afternoon as Richard Roe's worldwide search for six single travel companions shifted into high gear, including face-to-face interviews, impromptu dates and cocktail parties that continue today.
The quest that first gained steam with Roe's appearance on "The Oprah Winfrey Show" in April was expected to draw at least 500 women, many of whom booked rooms and took off work for the entire two days.
"Humbling is knowing the fact that you all spent the money and time to come here," Roe boomed from outside the hotel lobby, having just staged his entrance in an antique convertible T-Bird.
"We're all cut from the same mold," said the bachelor, dressed in a pink linen shirt and khaki cargos. "We're all single. And we all don't want to be."
The afternoon showed all the signs of the typical, cheesy TV dating show: Dozens of eligible bachelorettes vying for one man's attention, eyes focused on a pricey and impressive prize -- an all-expenses paid trip with Roe around the world, with promises of romance and, just maybe, something long-term.
But in this case the 64-year-old divorcé's offer isn't open to just anyone. Prospects must be "fit, fun and over 40," qualifications that on Thursday won him many fans.
"Very nice guy. Very down-to-earth," gushed Beth Ann Forest, 53, of Georgetown, Texas.
"He has a quick wit," said Christine Lom, 62, of Moraga.
"Sincere. Communicates well," added 50-year-old Debby Eddy, who had just returned to the hotel from having a facial.
"He cuts to the chase," she said.
Roe, who gained name recognition in 2000 after creating a documentary with his son about father-son relationships, contends his travel offer has nothing to do with attracting more media attention or creating the next reality dating show. (Although applicants are asked to sign disclaimers saying their videotaped messages "may be used in any manner or media worldwide," as determined by Roe.)
The ultimate goal, he claims, is to find compatible travel partners and prove they can come from within his age bracket, a demographic that older, single men too often overlook.
"I want the world to see how many fabulous women are 50 and over," he said. "What keeps me going is the fact that I have found myself a non-unique person in a unique position. It's about the message. ... I really am in a position where I might be able to make a change."
Roe, who has three sons and lived most of his life in Philadelphia, never saw himself living alone on The Strand in Manhattan Beach.
But in 1994 his wife of 29 years asked for a divorce, a move that left him hurt and transformed him into "an emotional marshmallow."
"I loved her tremendously. It didn't seem fair," he says of Margaret Ann Davis, the niece of Grace Kelly, in his online biography. "Instead of wallowing in self-pity, I decided to run away."
So the retired stockbroker moved to Los Angeles, where his three sons had settled with their wives and children, and started a new venture with his second-born son: A feature-length documentary called "Pop & Me," highlighting 29 relationships between fathers and sons from Los Angeles to China.
Distributed by MGM, the film won the pair appearances on CNN, ABC World News and Oprah.
It wasn't until his second appearance on Winfrey's show, one that promised to make "Your Wildest Dreams Come True," that the senior bachelor travel contest was born.
Roe has since launched a Web site -- http://www.seniorbachelor.com/ -- and started his own blog, gift store and online newsletter. He claims it has attracted hits from thousands of prospective mates around the world.
Of course, he admits there are a few "deal-breakers at my end."
Smokers? Forget about it.
Anyone more than a "social drinker?" No thanks.
"Let me add," Roe says on his Web site, "that I have never been arrested nor had any skirmishes with the law, and never had any serious illnesses or diseases of any kind. I suspect the woman I am interested in being with will have a similar background."
He hopes to narrow his choices down to 12 and eventually the lucky six, one for each month of his trip.
-- Looks like it worked!! RR
Hey, Willemina sent in some pics of me and the '55 T-Bird. Thanks so much!

-joe
From Richard:
A few observations: For the current status of Chicago, please read my comment in the blog below this one and posted Friday at 6:08. To Lois, thanks for explaining the Event in MB was WAY MORE than just meeting me, as it will be in Chicago in your comments Saturday, Sept. 10 at 1:32 am. . The real story was so many AMAZING women meeting each other and making what I believe will be new, lifelong friends!! We're already talking about a reunion on the Alaskan cruise next summer!! And, yes, the most painful part of this Journey will be over the next 4 weeks. I have said consistently that there are so many wonderful women to choose from that it will be just guesswork at this point. For those of you who have sent in materials, and/or e-mails, that have not been acknowledged, I am doing the best I can, and I remain more than 1,000 e-mails behind-mainly due to the Oprah rerun 2 weeks ago. I'm running as fast as I can.. I also enjoyed anonymous' comment of Saturday, Sept. 10 at 12:35. Thanks again for the nice comments on this blog, and let's keep talking!! Richard Roe
We stopped by the Ayres Hotel to thank Ann, Sal and the Staff and they said to say "Hello!" They really enjoyed hosting the Event and miss the Ladies.

PS- Here is a recap of the newspaper articles of "The Meet the Senior Bachelor Event":
"The Beach Reporter", Friday, September 6, 2005
"The Daily Breeze", September 3, 2005
(The "Daily Breeze" article has now been archived by the newspaper and will cost you money to view. I'll post it here if I can.)
Saturday, September 03, 2005
By Kristin S. Agostoni Daily Breeze
Bachelorettes flock to area to meet traveling MB man
In a quest that began on "Oprah," Richard Roe is looking for six single travel companions "fit, fun and over 40" to accompany him around the world.
Some got dolled up in strapless sundresses and stilettos, while others dressed down in jeans and summer capris. One made the six-hour drive from Rio Vista, while another booked a morning flight from Scottsdale, Ariz. A few brought girlfriends, yet some kept the trip a secret.
But each shared a common, dreamy goal of winning a few minutes with the eligible bachelor. Or, perhaps more importantly, getting the tanned, tall Manhattan Beach man to remember their names. Considering the size of the crowd, the latter task seemed to be easier said than done.
Hawthorne's Ayres Hotel was teeming with women Thursday afternoon as Richard Roe's worldwide search for six single travel companions shifted into high gear, including face-to-face interviews, impromptu dates and cocktail parties that continue today.
The quest that first gained steam with Roe's appearance on "The Oprah Winfrey Show" in April was expected to draw at least 500 women, many of whom booked rooms and took off work for the entire two days.
"Humbling is knowing the fact that you all spent the money and time to come here," Roe boomed from outside the hotel lobby, having just staged his entrance in an antique convertible T-Bird.
"We're all cut from the same mold," said the bachelor, dressed in a pink linen shirt and khaki cargos. "We're all single. And we all don't want to be."
The afternoon showed all the signs of the typical, cheesy TV dating show: Dozens of eligible bachelorettes vying for one man's attention, eyes focused on a pricey and impressive prize -- an all-expenses paid trip with Roe around the world, with promises of romance and, just maybe, something long-term.
But in this case the 64-year-old divorcé's offer isn't open to just anyone. Prospects must be "fit, fun and over 40," qualifications that on Thursday won him many fans.
"Very nice guy. Very down-to-earth," gushed Beth Ann Forest, 53, of Georgetown, Texas.
"He has a quick wit," said Christine Lom, 62, of Moraga.
"Sincere. Communicates well," added 50-year-old Debby Eddy, who had just returned to the hotel from having a facial.
"He cuts to the chase," she said.
Roe, who gained name recognition in 2000 after creating a documentary with his son about father-son relationships, contends his travel offer has nothing to do with attracting more media attention or creating the next reality dating show. (Although applicants are asked to sign disclaimers saying their videotaped messages "may be used in any manner or media worldwide," as determined by Roe.)
The ultimate goal, he claims, is to find compatible travel partners and prove they can come from within his age bracket, a demographic that older, single men too often overlook.
"I want the world to see how many fabulous women are 50 and over," he said. "What keeps me going is the fact that I have found myself a non-unique person in a unique position. It's about the message. ... I really am in a position where I might be able to make a change."
Roe, who has three sons and lived most of his life in Philadelphia, never saw himself living alone on The Strand in Manhattan Beach.
But in 1994 his wife of 29 years asked for a divorce, a move that left him hurt and transformed him into "an emotional marshmallow."
"I loved her tremendously. It didn't seem fair," he says of Margaret Ann Davis, the niece of Grace Kelly, in his online biography. "Instead of wallowing in self-pity, I decided to run away."
So the retired stockbroker moved to Los Angeles, where his three sons had settled with their wives and children, and started a new venture with his second-born son: A feature-length documentary called "Pop & Me," highlighting 29 relationships between fathers and sons from Los Angeles to China.
Distributed by MGM, the film won the pair appearances on CNN, ABC World News and Oprah.
It wasn't until his second appearance on Winfrey's show, one that promised to make "Your Wildest Dreams Come True," that the senior bachelor travel contest was born.
Roe has since launched a Web site -- http://www.seniorbachelor.com/ -- and started his own blog, gift store and online newsletter. He claims it has attracted hits from thousands of prospective mates around the world.
Of course, he admits there are a few "deal-breakers at my end."
Smokers? Forget about it.
Anyone more than a "social drinker?" No thanks.
"Let me add," Roe says on his Web site, "that I have never been arrested nor had any skirmishes with the law, and never had any serious illnesses or diseases of any kind. I suspect the woman I am interested in being with will have a similar background."
He hopes to narrow his choices down to 12 and eventually the lucky six, one for each month of his trip.
-- Looks like it worked!! RR
Hey, Willemina sent in some pics of me and the '55 T-Bird. Thanks so much!
172 Comments:
Good Morning! Thanks for cleaning up the blog Joe...someone told me people weren't playing nice and I get quite sensitive if it's directed at me! This is all in fun!
Thank you Richard.....Hope you have a great week end. I hope you all do. When this is all over I don't know what I'll do with all my extra time. I love reading all the comments, Hang in there. There will soon be 6 very happy women. Shaloam....Okie
Dear Linda, You beat me again....I bet you are as heck of a realtor. I used to have people list with me because I was so persistent. I left 33 listings when I went inactive and I bet you are a top producer and loads of fun to be around. MMQC
Good morning Richard and fellow bloggers,
Well, it's nice to be back on the blogs after a little time off :)
Today is a public and bank holiday in Belize so I get to play a little with you today.
Richard, you are so funny! Answering tons of e-mails and facing the most difficult part of the selection process over the next couple weeks. You are so dedicated and wonderful to this cause.
My suggestion, meet as many of the gals as you can. If there is a connection, you will feel it as chemistry is a strong element in this type of selection process. Once you have chemistry, the rest can be worked out. I truly doubt you can go wrong with this group of ladies that have assembled here.
Cheers and best wishes.
To merrymary, This endeavor will not "be over" for the rest of our lives. Long after the Search and Journey, there will be many new and exciting "arms and legs" that will have been spawned by our collective efforts. Stay tuned!!! RR
Top 'oer the mornin' too yoo Mr. Blued ROE/MANCE AND ADVENTURE Richard:) Joe, 'lone rangers' and gals on the blog!
Again a glorious Saturday morning here, love the season ahead with the Fall colours, vibrant and pleasing to the eye! The first Senior Bachelor/Senior Bachelorette Cruise next Summer sounds very exciting, that will make it 5 years since not having a holiday, too long without a break!
As the saying goes, all good things come to those who wait :)
I am excited as people are responding to the idea of the Children sending 'prayer cards and letters' to the Children at the Astrodome in Houston Texas! Thank you Joe for your positive input and forwarding the info. to your kids and their schools. I always 'see' a powerful presence when I connect to the eyes of babies and little children, they seem to 'know' something that I am not fully cognizant of! Maybe it is because children are void of all the 'layers' and games we adults can play, they teach us about UNCONDITIONAL LOVE!
Now for a bike ride in the crisp fresh air of today!
Take Care Y'all
from the 'out of africa'
Senior Bachelorette:)
Vj
Morning all! Wow, I can't believe my energy level considering the busy-ness of the past week. I think I'll spend some time today cleaning up the garden, getting it ready for fall. Tomorrow am taking Robbie in for grooming - his professorial eyebrows have grown so bushy, I don't know how he can see! Then I'm dropping in to see my grandson (well, I guess I'll visit his Mommy, too - "grin")
Richard With all your busy-ness in preparing for Chicago, make sure you take some time for R,R,&R (rest, relaxation, & reminiscing).{Hugs}
Hi everyone,
I'd like to thank gold&spice, Miriam in VA, honestgal, Karla, Chi-town girl, and Sylvia (heiresschild) for your kind comments about the "classified" humor I posted. I appreciate you, too! . . . and I'm glad I was able to brighten your day :-)
And . . . thanks, Richard! I've really enjoyed reading about Etruscan culture. Thanks for introducing me to it.
It's especially interesting to me that women had such a high status in Etruscan culture, yet, as Dr. Warden of SMU observed: "I am absolutely convinced one of the main reasons they weren't successful in the long run was that their society was static, didn't change with time." . . . do you think there's a possibility the Etruscan women weren't as enlightened as the "Ladies of the Blog"?
I think it'd be great fun to discuss this theory, and others, with you sometime! But, for now, I'll just wonder . . . where in the world did the Etruscan's come from?
Peace to all,
Sheila
PS: Joe, thank you, too, for all you do!
PPS: I wasn't able to log in with my password for "Sheila", is there any way for me to retrieve whatever password is on file? Or should I just open another blogger account? Thanks for your help.
Is it really necessary to meet in Chicago? Would a second MB event serve the same purpose/s?
My observation was that many traveled from far to MB and others had time/schedule restrictions for the first event.
Just asking in an attempt to find some solutions!
I’m guessing that the ‘most difficult and painful part of this endeavor” that is coming up is the actual choosing from the many fabulous women you’re meeting. We all understand that you’ve already decided that rather than choose one woman with whom to travel for six months, you will choose six women for one month. Why not 100 women for 100 months?
I’m certain, Richard, that having set your intent to find your perfect mate, that you will manifest her. And like I said in my video – “Want to make God laugh? Tell Her YOUR plans!” By that I mean you may be accompanying one of us wonderful women somewhere and meet a waitress who is serving us. Your respective eyes will light up and that will be the end of your search.
If I am not chosen to accompany you anywhere, I will not consider all the time and effort I put into my bio and video a waste or a loss. And thus it won’t be painful. I have learned so much about my Self just in the doing of it. To accompany you somewhere in the world would only be extra frosting on the already delicious cake that this experience has been for me.
Happy choosing, Richard!
beebah61
This is the day I had planned to fly back from New Orleans following my bike ride down the Mississippi River. The ride ending in Memphis, cut short by 500 miles, but I did ride 1200 miles. Instead I am home, waking up in my own bed with my one year old Golden Retriever, Phoebe, at my bedside and along with my brother' 11 year old Golden Retriever, Elsie, who I am boarding for a week. They make an interesting match - Phoebe is more of an influence over Elsie than the other way around. Elsie is much more playful but Phoebe continues with her puppy energy. MMMMMMMMM - that said - is it the influence of the young who keep our energy flowing or is it something else - perhaps just being young at heart and attitude that make us want to go out and challenge the world.
And tomorrow is my birthday - have not wanted to celebrate in the past four years - given 9/11 but have managed to pull together a few gatherings for myself.
I had planned to have my neice who was going to visit me from Pensacola when I was in New Orleans do my 3 minute video from some wonderful spot in New Orleans. So now I am scrambling to get it done and in on time. And my bike is some where in route between Memphis and Washington so cannot use that as my prop.
Richard - get lots of rest and stay healthy because some of these energy filled, fun lovin' women are going to Chicago!!
Melanie
Good morning RR. This is going to be such a challenge for you. Don't you love it!! There are so many great ladies on this blog and so many more out there waiting for their turn to look into you beautiful baby blues. I was fortunate enough to already do so in MB. I choose to remain anon. because I prefer you make your decisions with all the material you already have. It IS all about chemistry. Physical and Mental.
Just a short post to put in my 2 cents. I strongly believe the Chicago event should take place. After all, this is where it all started...on Oprah in chicago.
The MB event was good, but Chicago has it's own flavor and looks promising.
BTW, my heart is thrumming along with the marching bands that are passing directly in front of my house. It's the Tenth Day of September (the Battle of St. George's Caye day) and all the nation of Belize is celebrating.
The annual Carnival parade takes place later in the afternoon and it will be fun in the sun for the revellers who abound on the streets of Belize today.
My daughter got about a million balloons and is jumping around with beads and chains strung around her neck.
Wish you were here to join in the fun!
Dear Richard.I had to go shopping ...I have 17 coming for lunch after church tomorrow...kids,grand kids and great grands(I was a child bride). I'm your age but wow...talk about chemistry. You had never addressed me personally and WOW...oh my gosh...my heart is still fluttering. I feel like a teen ager. See you in Chicago with bells on. In Lust >>>can't be love...not yet??? You are a sweetheart. Thanks for making this so fun. Ms. Mary....very Merry
Joe in MB
I failed to be clear because you seemed to have missed the point I was trying to make. Don't sweat the small stuff (hotels). We can solve problems, find answers and most of us don't even like being told where to stay, what to think, nor how to respond.
Your efforts are appreciated. Just "give up" some of the control and you might be surprised what can happen!
Re Blogger who refers to "cream rising to the top."
Thanks for the reminders of events that could happen. It reminded me of why I sometimes prefer traveling alone. I learned many years ago, however, that most cream never rises to the top but is rather pushed or pulled to the top (at least in the business world) and I think in the travel and love world as well.
Howdy 'Baby Blue Eyes'...RR :), Joe and 'lone rangers'roaming them thar hills :)
Tomorow as we all know is the Anniversay of the Sept.11th catastrophe, prayers and thoughts go out to all those who suffered the anguish of losing loved ones. We must have the certainty that 'every cloud has a silver lining' there is always a BIGGER PICTURE'
Here's to 'MAKING WILDEST DREAMS COME TRUE'
WANDA: nice seeing ya back on the blog!
CALLMELIN: prayers and thoughts with you and holding thumbs for your brother's full recovery!
DESERTFLOWERS/'DESERTFOX':) come back to the Oasis!
PHYL: 'sweet P' waz up?
SHARON/SHAR:) I too am enjoying the camraderie on the blog, now and again we find a 'stray coyote'
whose disposition is a little way 'off track'! :) The Blog Police is doing a fine job of putting it in the 'pound' owwwww!
Love and Light
from the 'out of africa'
Senior Bachelorette:)
Vj
Re the questions about why having an event in Chicago versus Manhattan Beach and about no need for Joe and I to plan for a specfic hotel in Chicago: Very good questions...I thought it fair to the people who live in the Midwest and East Coast and Southeast and Canada to have an Event closer to where they live than Southern California. That just seemed fair and made sense-at least to me. Also, a lot of women who sent in their materials are from those areas. Do I have a "secret deal" with the Oprah show for them to film there??? No, I don't. I wish I did have a "deal" with them as I believe the exposure would be great for our common cause. Might they show up? Maybe, but you know as much as I do at this point. It has not been a secret that I almost did a follow-up show right after the first broadcast in April, and I have sent over 60 tapes to the Show, but I have heard nothing that would lead me to believe they will be there. I'll tell them though, that's for sure! Re us taking care of a hotel, it goes without saying, that of course you can book your own hotel room and you do not have to be where the main group is. But if you had been in MB (I'm assuming you weren't there or I doubt you would have posed the question) you would have seen the INCREDIBLE chemistry with the women there. This was something simply wonderful to witness, and I hope we can recreate that in Chicago. I'm really looking forward to the Chicago event, and many people have contacted me about attending. I do think you'll here from me early next week with the plans for Sept. 30 and Oct. 1, and possibly starting Sept. 29. Best wishes and have fun on the blog. Richard Roe
I am thinking about sending a tape. I have some questions.
1. Are you only looking for women over 50? I read that you were at one time looking for someone 38? Do you like older women or youngs ones? I am 42.
2. What if you get to one of these exotic places and you just cannot get along with that person. Are you going to have second runner ups or are you going to just come home?
3. What if the lady you choose just cannot get along with you is she free to go home?
4. What if you find someone before you go or the first lady you choose is the "one", are you going to still go with the rest of the ladies? if yes, why?
5. What if you find someone before you go, are you still going to go through with the trips?
6. How can you decide that you're going to get along with the person without getting to know them first? At least a E-harmony or something like that you mutually get to know each other. Don't you think it would be better to write or talk on the phone first? The timeline you are describing doesn't seem to allow for that.
I guess I am just worrying about sending a video tape to a complete stranger and I am imagining what kind of person does that, though I am considering it! Can you answer my questions?
Thanks. I live in Seattle.
Ladies of the blog, I pose the following questions to you. What are your expectations regarding accomodations? Do you expect 5 star all the way?Would you be sorely dissappointed in anything less? Would you even consider Hostels or B&B's.Could you truly enjoy a trip that was loosely structured and dominated by 'fly by the seat of your pants' planning. Or must you have a very tightly structured, pre planned trip? Just curious.
Just testing this out to see if a pic appears...
My, it worked,
I had a few hours to spare (actually only took about 20 min to figure out with Linda's excellent easy to understand instructions, thanks Linda In Tucson!
Howdy RR, Joe and 'posse':)
Just received a call that the DVD POP&ME has arrived at the local video store! Soo looking foward to seeing it with my three kidz especially considering my Middle Son leaves for Africa end of the month for his 6 month Internship!
Again, what incredible timing!!
Ciao for now
Love and Light
Senior Bachelorette:)
Vj
Spent over an hour on Suzan's blog
explaining to Lois that I did not mean the ladies going to Chicago are doing so as an EGO TRIP. And to
meet the blogettes I would rather do that on a cruise.
RR's going to Chicago is the EGO TRIP.......than the post got lost;
maybe for the better with my poor English.
I had just gotten off a 12 Hour Shift at the Nursing Home, now I am
loosing it. ....
Thank you for clarifying Umberto's
purpose.
Leslieinvancan , your photos on your blogsite postup are fun to look at!
Thanks for allowing us the inside view of the friendship that you enjoyed with the ladies in MB.
BTW, I loved your pedicure foot photo with Rich Roe on the NNBBSHD website! So cool to see that you both have neat feet, ha ha!! Sorry, I couldn't resist :)
Happy Birthday tomorrow Melonie. I do hope you have a good one and many,many more.I have a friend in New York that worked at the WTC and was one of the lucky ones. She moved back to Portarico (spelling?) for awhile ,until she partially healed and is back in New York now. I met her this summer at Good Morning America and we email frequently and talk by phone. Willmena your picture is great and that blue dress is beautiful. MM
Merrymary, Thank you so much for the compliment. My nephew married a wonderful girl from Harbin, China this past February and her mother had this dress tailor made just for me and it fits perfectly!
She asked me what color and I said, "surprise me". I love the color! She also made me a beautiful green jacket to wear for the New Year celebration.
Alaska checking in:
Richard, you're right on in commenting on Anonymous's blog on Sept. 10 at 12:35:47...whoever it is has great insight into what this "search for adventure and romance" will lead to. I"m getting more anxious by the day for the selection process to come to an end, and begin "the trip".
Ciao for now, Karla
Richard Well, there you go -no reason to look further. Neat feet says it all! ;D (according to belizegial
Willemina Great to "see" you again! The dress is gorgeous and what a beautiful colour! Keep in touch.
Droma I disagree that RR going to Chicago is an ego trip! I saw him as very sincere. I could go on, but I'll leave it at that.
To the anonymous from Seattle - all those questions have already been posed and answered. If you are in doubt, don't bother. You have to be committed to the adventure and be willing to go in fearlessly with eyes wide open.
Well, time to take a break and do the Saturday crossword. Will check in again later.
BikingNut: Never let the events of September 11th violate your SPECIAL DAY! Happy Birthday!! Your birthday is a day to celebrate, and I can only imagine every person, and every family memeber of those who were lost would want you to celebrate LIVING! When you lose the innocence of that child-like celebration with birthday cake and candles you let evil win, and the evil ones continue to victimize all that is SPECIAL about you! Hope is about the future, because we cannot change the past...So have fun and be ALL THAT IS ALIVE for that is YOUR destiny!
Peace,
CJ
Where have all my questions been answered and who are you Leslie? I think if I am going to do a video, then Mr. Roe can answer my questions or show me where they have been answered. Who are you anyway Leslie, his personal answer person?
Anonymous in Seattle.
To Anonymous in Seattle,
Leslie is actually a very sweet lady from Vancouver, Canada whom I've had the pleasure of meeting.
She is only letting you know that those questions have been answered in previous blogs. It is somewhat overwhelming to go through them so I can understand your having to ask them again and I'm sure you'll get your answers. Leslie is only trying to be helpful so please be nice...thanks and welcome
To anonymous in seattle,I have not met Mr. Roe. If we are to believe all of the many obsevations made by so many different women, and there is no reason not too. It would appear that he is a very down to earth person. The joy of travel and some of the most memorable experiences come from unplanned, unexpected bumps in the road. Just by your comments, I think that it might be safe to assume that you are a very type A personality and must have everything just so and every second tightly orchestrated. You seem to have some misdirected hostility. As an observation, I believe that this whole concept is beyond your grasp. Leslie! You go girl.
Seattle, I understand you asking those questions-but they have been answered not once but maybe a thousand times.
There are so many of us who have meet this man and he is truly a wonderful guy.
If you can't just go for it-then your not the one for him.
So I would say-forget the video, forget the trip and enjoy your life if at all possible.
I READ THIS TODAY AND WANT TO SHARE IT 'CAUSE I THINK THIS EXPLAINS RICHARD'S MOTIVES (probably not the correct word to use)...
'"SOMETIMES OUR LIGHT GOES OUT BUT IS BLOWN INTO FLAME BY AN ENCOUNTER WITH ANOTHER HUMAN BEING. EACH OF US OWES THE DEEPEST THANKS TO THOSE WHO HAVE REKINDLED THIS INNER LIGHT"......ALBERT SCWEITZER So, thank you Richard and thank all of you for making this such an awsome chapter in our lives. I ordered Pop And Me today. It'll be a week before it comes in. Okla. is a bit slow. They had it to rent but I want to bring mine and get it autographed. I guess Chris won't be there but Richard's will do. Dreamweaver I hope you all enjoy Pop And Me tonight. MM
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Willemina....beautiful dress for a beautiful person. It is amazing what the Asian tailors can do with a couple of measurements. A lady in Hue, Vietnam, took flash measurements one evening and in less than 24 hours presented me with a wonderful Ao-dai (dress).
Operawench...I just watched an amazing Italian film of a 'castrato' opera singer "Farinelli". Have you watched it? Beautiful music!
Ladybase....thank you for clarifying about the ages. I'm a bit sensitive about calendar ages as I'm in my late 40's and it seemed from previous blogs that the preferred age for RR is above 50 even though I've always felt more 'mature' than others in my age bracket.
Droma...Aren't the nursing home patients challenging? I too work at a hospital, but I find sitting down (if I can find the time) talking with the ones without dementia are really interesting adventures. We have one lady who is 106 and claims she was an archelologist in Africa. She is pretty accurate with her descriptions. Anyways, good luck to you!
Linda in Tucson...I think I'm getting braver. Can you send me the instructions on how to get my pic in here? Thanks!
Today was a clear morning ... great for a long bike ride. Yes, it is autumn! My white birch's leaves are turning yellow.
Hugs to all!
I was wondering why my photo didn't come up with my last couple of blogs and apparently our power went out, so I had to reset everything. Put up a new photo, too.
Thx everyone for the support re Seattle Anon. After all, it's pretty far fetched to expect Richard to answer the same questions over and over again for one person who can't make a decision with 5 days remaining to get everything in.
And, Anon, you never know who I might be one day ;)
Regarding Anonymous in Seattle,
She is probably new to the blogs, therefore does not know the answers to the questions she is asking. Instead of being obnoxious to her, why not just tell here where she can find answers, or better yet, give her the answers yourselves. Yes, Richard has answered some of those questions, but apparently she doesn't know that. Anonymous in Seattle, you can go back to some of the previous blogs to find out some of your answers. Also, if you don't find anwers to your questions, Richard will answer them, maybe not right away, but he will answer them. He has to understand that there are new people coming on board who don't know what's been previously asked or answered.
Prarie Critter...You are not forgotton, so forgive the late entry!
I have traveled in many conditions and I have to say that for me, I personally most enriched with "flying by the seat of my pants". I have stayed in 'not even a star' hotels, waited for a train for 23 hours, been air vacced (sp) out of a country (civil war), had a camel as one of my first pets/modes of tranportation and had my behind (gluteus maximus)fall asleep on the back of a motorcycle. I haven't stayed in hostels yet, but welcome the invite. Huts yes. So yes, to answer your question, I'm open to any modes of travel...!
Hello Anonymous in Seattle:
Welcome to the Blog.
I think you will find that if you go to the SB Website - and read everything posted ... and read through all of the past Newsletters, that you will find the answers to most of your questions there:
http://www.seniorbachelor.com
For instance, under 'Finding You' - you will find this statement - regarding age:
The woman I feel I will be the best match for me will be fit, a great traveler with a thirst for knowledge, and really-REALLY-REALLY-a lot of fun to be with. She should be at least 40 years old (thank you, Oprah!), adventurous, adaptable and open to the possibility of a long term relationship.
If you still have questions after reading Richard's prepared materials - then you might consider scanning through and reading all of the posts on the Blog - by Richard. (If you collapse the comments - you can quicky scroll through - and identify the comments that Richard has posted).
Regarding your comments to Leslie - as Willemina states - she is a great lady ... and was just making a suggestion. That is the nature of a Blog. Everybody jumps in and helps out. Just so you know, many of us have been posting here since April ... and Leslie and many others were participants in the 'Meet the Senior Bachelor' event in Manhattan Beach - so I'm sure that you can understand that we just appreciate people who 'do their homework' before asking questions that have been answered over and over ... and over. And over. : )
Happy Birthday Melanie! Enjoy tomorrow ... and celebrate your life!!
Hi Belizegial! Good to see you again. Have missed seeing you on here!
Hello Richard! Loved your comment to Merry Mary - that this will not 'be over' for the rest of our lives! Great comment!! Looking forward to seeing the arms and legs too! : )
Good Night All
Brenda
Not Richard's Answer Person ... just a long-time SB Bloggette
I've been out of the loop today....did you miss me? Ha ha
Re: instructions for putting your pic on your posts, I wrote them out on my blog which you can get to by clicking on my name.
Just popped in to say g'nite Richard
Sweet dreams! Prrrrrr
Ladybasecamp and honestgal,New Zealand has an awesome hostel setup. It was a great way to see and meet the KIWI's.Given a choice between a 5 star and a hostel. I will take a hostel everytime. Although I must say, I am often the oldest guest in the establishment when I travel that way. However, I have met some of the most wonderful kids. Flying by the seat of one's pants is such an incredible experience. I love it.
R.R.
It looked like everyone in M.B.had a "Great Time." I just wish the rest of us could've been there. Oh-so many beautiful ladies in one spot. I'd loved to have heard the serenade by the Oprawench. It was just oh-so nice to put some names on the faces looking oh-so sharp in M.B.
From the begining I have admitted just going to Chicago was going to be an excursion for me. I'm afraid I've been the hopeful Cinderella looking in on the wings at the "BALL." Remember I'm the one like the gal in the movie "Pretty Women," I'd need help from what clothes do I wear??? And what fork do I use???? I guess that's part of living in the rural U. S. A. But I'm Proud to say that's were I'm from!!!
I commend you for having the courage to step out of your box and do this. I again would hate to be in your shoes. The good news is I toooo have stepped out of my box by just writing to you. Learning about the blog and all of the other "GREAT LADIES," I've gotten aquainted with.
I have to admit I'm allot disapointed about not getting to be the Cinderrella looking on from the wings at the "BALL." The date for the "Windy CIty," just happens to be the date of my sons wedding.
I've been on a very long journey with my son and his dreams come before mine. I've been so blessed to have him arround four years longer than I was supposed tooo*** So this day is even more "Special,"
He will be marrying his PRINCESS!!
If you happen to have a lay over or fly into The Des Moines Airport. I'd be glad to buy you a cup of coffee. I'm about an hour and forty-five minutes from there!!! Maybe just send me one of those smiles and a twinkle from those eyes as you fly over. I just might be in my boat dreaming about
the journey I longed tooo be on***
I'm going tooo miss you gals in Chicago but, will still try to keep up with the blogging. My Blessings tooo all!!!!
Iowa Gal
Thank you honestgal for the compliment. I lived in S. Korea for 2 years and had quite a few items of clothing tailor made. You just show them a picture and they make it exactly as you want it. And they're fast too! By the way, did you figure out how to post your pic on the blog? Just click on Linda's name and it's right there on her page. It's very easy.
Leslie; I love the new pic!
Prairie critter; I know where you're coming from re the travel arrangements. I have lived a military lifestyle for over 30 years. Sometimes staying in what we call a 'guesthouse' on base. Well, we shared the kitchen facilities with maybe 10 other families, 2 stoves for 10 families and everyone wants to eat at 6 o'clock! We shared bathrooms also. I would go in and scrub the tub so that I could give my children a bath only to realize that I forgot something. Well, while I was gone, someone else went in there to start their own bath and then left it dirty for me...I learned to never do that again.
One year during Christmas we were living in the guest house in Germany and didn't have a Christmas tree so my children decided to make one. We bought green crepe paper and made an outline of a tree on the wall and my children made decorations for it. It was one of the best Christmas' ever! We even had snow that year! it was beautiful...
We usually had to wait 30-45 days for our household goods to arrive at our new location so we used cardboard boxes turned upside down for tables and sat on the floor. We borrowed dishes, etc. from a lending closet on base and returned them when ours arrived and always donated lots more back to them. The military was my family and they were good to me. We had some hard times but the military family takes care of their own. So what was my point? Sorry for rambling on like that...memories, I have lots...
I think that sometimes the unexpected turn in the road makes for some great memories...something you can't find in a 5-star hotel in the big city. I would welcome to join Richard in his unplanned adventures, it sounds exciting!
Iowa Gal; Welcome...that's wonderful that you had the couer-age to step out of the box. You sound like a person I would love to know. Congratulations on your sons upcoming wedding. Start saving for one of the cruises next year and maybe we can meet.
I had the pleasure of spending some time with Lois (Operawench) and she's a darling. She, Zoe and I talked until late Saturday night in my room. Two truly wonderful ladies.
It was exciting to know beforehand what some of the ladies looked like, When I first drove up to the hotel, I parked right next to Linda in Tucson who was just returning from Starbucks. I recognized her right away and gave her a great big hug! These women were truly amazing and I consider myself a better person to have met them. I only wish we could have had a week to really get to know everyone, but then that wouldn't have been long enough.
Just got news of my training with red cross. They need 44,000 people!
Would be one way of helping. I heard only 13% of the people in the U.S. have given money to this horrible event. If we can't give money maybe we could give of ourselves-or maybe both :)
Hope all of you are doing well.
Doris your book came in, so will pick it up tomorrow-I am excited about getting it.
Pam is melting-her air went out in her car-but she is still laughing and I am so excited she is back in my life. What a great person to have as a good friend.
There is another reason to go to Chicago-you may just find a lost best friend or find a new best friend.
Best to all of you,
Marty
To merrymary,
Thank you for the beautiful quote from Albert Schweitzer. I'll be memorizing it and keeping it with my fifty or so other 'all time favorite' quotes.
Beebah61
Dear Beebah62...You are so welcome. Hope you have a great Sun. I'm getting ready for early church and then family here for lunch. On GMA they just did a tape from our own American turned Muslin saying Los Angelos will be next target. That is scary. It's hard to believe our own people turning on us but that was the case in the Ok. City bombing also. Take care and remember to let someone light your fire...maybe Richard?????? Love to all, Mary
Woops...BeeBah61...Sorry...I should have been born blond.
9/11, a day to ponder.
Howdy Mr. ROE/MANce and ADVENTURE Richard, Joe and 'lone rangers':)
I am on my way to pick up my POP&ME DVD, we gonna chillax and watch it t'dday!
IOWA GAL: congratulations on the upcoming wedding of your Son. I would love to meet you....I feel the Cruise next year is going to be the reunion for ALL of us who have yet to connect face to face:) I too fit into the 'Cinderella Category' so you're not alone Sister! By the way thank you for your kind words in your former Post. Whatever you see in me resides within you, that is why we have to choose our words very carefully. The song by Christina Aggulera 'Words Can Bring You Down' is very true indeed! I love the part 'You Are Beautiful, no matter what they say, words can bring you down'
MERRYMARY: I will post the reaction to POP&ME as soon as we have seen it, for sure! :) I look forward to your input too!
LINDAINTUCSON: You are a character, never a dull moment:)
CLICKGIRL: thanks for the positive input on one of your former Posts!
OH WHAT A BEAUTIFUL MORNIN' OH WHAT A BEAUTIFUL DAY, I'VE GOT THAT WONDERFUL FEELIN', EVERYTHIN'S GOIN' MY WAY
Love and Light from the
'out of africa'
Senior Bachelorette:)
Vj
p.s. have any of you read Carlos Casteneda's Books? I have quite a story about it!!!
You ladies sure are quick to defend RR, as if he needs it.
He comes across as very sincere on the Oprah show, but the more I see,
the more I doubt the man's motives.
He is looking for a travelling companion; that is and stays clear.
I think by now he should add another F to his requirements,F like in Financially Fit.
I will see if this will pass the Blog Police on this try. Than I will make some remarks about RR's
8/24 Newsletter. Anon in Seattle, you may want to read this, especially the part about his stay in Hoi An, Vietnam. An example of RR's idea of Fun???
Ellen
Iowa gal, Hang in there. God will put you where he wants you to be, in his own time. He answers in Yes, No and Not yet. This is just a not yet.You have taken a huge step just stepping out of the box. Now that you have started by poking a whole in the box, try to do something outside the realm of your comfot level at least once a month. For many people, it may be just going to a movie or out to dinner by yourself.Have a most marvelous time at your son's wedding. Nothing can compare to that occasion. Willemina-Your dress is absolutely fabulous.Rambling is OK. Memories are the fabric of life. Good or bad, they shape our very being. It is how we allow those memories to affect us that is important. To allow bad happenings to turn us into cynical, sarcastic, negative od bats is tragic. Embrace, analyze and learn from each event for God has put it in our path for a reason. Turn it around for His greater glory and crush satan with his sword. Let us all remember on this day, those who have fallen in the 9/11 tragedy but also all those who have given their lives in service to this great nation in all the wars, so that we may remain free. We must not forget those affected by Katrina.Many times we forget how blessed we are.
praire critter: I say: Amen! You are such a delight. I love your posts :-)
Sheila
good morning everyone, even though i didn't want to post on this site for a while, i couldn't help a few comments:
First: HAPPY BIRTHDAY BIKINGNUT aka MELANIE
Second: prarie critter thank u for your encouraging words to iowa gal. sometimes we try and do things because someone else is doing it, but it may not be the right time for us, and just like u said, God leads and guides us - puts us where we He wants us to be in His own time - not our time or anyone else's time.
my daughter and I are very close, and did just about everything together. almost 2 years ago, she moved to CA. even though i grieved when she moved (because of missing her), i began to go out by myself to the movies, museums, plays, etc. sometimes we don't do things unless we have someone to do them with. i will get up and go in a minute to whatever it is i want to do now. it seems the "friends" i have here don't want to go when i do, or don't like shakespeare or always have some excuse. so i go. and i really enjoy myself. l laugh, or cry, or just talk. in other words, i'm comfortable doing those things now by myself.
this was stepping out of my box. now as i've been reading the blogs and reading about the travel experiences of the other ladies, it's giving me couer-age to plan a travel trip on my own one day. i will be flying out to CA to visit my daughter and son-in-law in november when they have their 1st baby. i've done a little traveling, not too far from home and for short periods of time, and always with someone, so this time i'll be going to the airport by myself and flying by myself until i reach CA. this is stepping out of the box for me. each of our lives is so different, yet we are all so unique in our own way.
prarie critter, u inspsired and encouraged me this morning; i just wanted to let u know.
HAVE A BLESSED DAY EVERYONE.
sylvia
prarie critter - I am planning on going to New Zealand and Australia next winter probably by myself and would love to talk to you about what you experienced and any tips you can give me email me at raceee1@yahoo.ca
Good Morning!
Just checking in to say all is well in my world:)
Good Morning 'All
I would imagine is it difficult for anyone to try to catch up with all of us. Think of how much knowledge we have from reading the newsletters and bloggs.
I would like to add another "F" word, that would be FLEXIBLE - this process is all new to all of us and we are learning how it works as we go. MB had it's share of snags, but you roll with it.
It really is about the journey, when you travel alot you learn that you have to move with the tide so to speak, some of the ruts in the road can turn out to be the best parts of the journey.
I totally enourage any of you considering Chicago to just go for it. In MB we had the advantage of staying in one lovely little property. If you don't actually stay at the Chicago property, be there as much as you can as some of the best times we had in MB were before and after the planned events. Plus that will allow you the great opportunity of meeting some wonderful women.
Love to all, Michelle
police blog, you're on your job. i was just getting ready to send a reply to anonymous, but u beat me to the punch with a delete. if i didn't see the comments with my own eyes, i would have thought i imagined it.
Do you think the Chicago event will evoke as much or more exposure for the cause as the MB event did?
While some of us support the cause, we are not overly enthusiastic about the exposure because of family protection, privacy issues, and/or job security.
What, if anything, is being done to protect family privacy and safety and security of participants in this endeavor?
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MELANIE!!!
AKA biking nut
Willemina....thanks for the hint on how to drop in a picture. Now I have to futz around with that darn digital camera! I loved the story about washing your kids in the tub! Also your Christmas story! Rock on!
Praire Critter...I've been a 'lonely planet reader for awhile; I thought you had to book ahead for hostels...no? Is there a internet site, book or whatnot to get info on hostels? And I'm glad to hear there is NOT an age cut off...!
Biking nut....Happy Birthday! Enjoy your Special Day! Know there are a lot of folks thinking about you and wishing you happy thoughts!
Hugs!
Another voice heard from.
Richard & Ladies:
I am an unknown entity to all of you, but I have been playing catch up, reading many previous postings on Richard's blog. I feel that I have come to know those of you that are regulars.
I would like to share some life wisdom, gleaned in 20+ years of living single. Many of you already know this, but I feel life's truths can never be repeated too often.
When I first became single after a long term marriage, I thought that I was supposed to have a man to complete my life. Over time, I came to realize that a special person can bring me joy, but happiness comes from within.
Expecting one man to be all things to one woman is asking a lot of that man.
The importance of good female friends can never be overestimated. Having strong female friendships is priceless.
Those of you ladies who have bonded on the blog and are planning a giant slumber party--go for it!
A final note: regarding singles travel events.
They are great! I have been on a number of them from singles cruises to a fantastic trip to Kenya. Being part of a singles travel group will guarantee you are surrounded by fun loving people.
If your criteria for travel with a singles group is to have a wonderful vacation, you will be guaranteed a good time. If you go expecting to meet your soul mate, you most likely will be disappointed.
I think the same philosophy would serve us well in regards to travel with Richard. Like the rest of you, I hope to be one of the lucky six who get to go.
If romance should blossom, what a delight! But if the magic chemistry is missing, whoever goes will return home with memories of a fabulous trip and the beauty of a new friendship with Richard.
And, while I value my friendships with my female friends, I equally value the friendships I have with many males in my life
i'm still catching up on the blogs. willemina, enjoyed reading your stories about your miliary life experiences. it goes to show how we can make make much out of little - how we can make do with what we have until we can get more, or do better. some of the best times are in the hardest times because we learn it's not the tangible things that are important, but it's family and friends - our loved ones.
sylvia
Aloha ROE ROE ROE your boat gently down the stream, merrily merrily merrily merriy, LIFE IS BUT A DREAM!
I am now looking at the DVD POP&ME....one step closer to seeing it:)
Spent a good part of the day in the beautiful sunshine and the cool breeze! Okay time to watch the documentary...take care y'all
'till the next Post;)
Love and Light
'out of africa's'
Senior Bachelorette:)
Vj
from Sheila:
oops! sorry for the mis-spelling, prarie critter :-( I knew I should have previewed my message before sending it - typing was never my strong suit!
Happy Birthday, Melanie! I'm so glad you're here, blessing our world.
Willemina, you look absolutely beautiful in that shade of blue!
For all those who might be interested in some resources for senior travel:
http://www.hiusa.org is the International Hostel network's site. You'll find plenty of links there to get you started. I've also stayed at hostels, met some incredible people from around the world, and have very fond memories from those adventures.
www.elderhostel.org is for the 55+ traveler and is another great way to go, especially if you want to add some education to your traveling experience.
If you're interested in finding other links to websites that offer exotic adventure for seniors (eldertreks), walking tours for seniors, etc. I'd suggest going to http://transitionsabroad.com and clicking on the "Senior Travel" link on the left. They've devoted an entire page to people like us . . .
And, last but not least . . . Go, Steelers! Sorry, I just had to say that - I'm from Pittsburgh :-)
Peace!
Sheila
Dear Ladies of the Blog,
I would like to present to you a reality check as to THE MAN:
You are dreaming of a 0.2% chance to spend 1 month with a stranger
(2 the first 2 mo.) in some part of
3 Continents, all with different cultures, that are foreign to the USA. You do not know much else about the trips, except that the travelling portion will be paid for by HIM.
Your knowledge of RR is scant and only from what he has said, none backed up by action so far.
Some of you had a few MINUTES with him. Is that enough for you to commit yourself to a person for
1 month? To be somewhere neither he nor most likely you have enough
knowledge to get around unprepared,
and tackle the unexpected?
And without anyone knowing where exactly you are?
It took RR 4 MONTH TO LET US KNOW that he does not speak, much less is able to read, any foreign
language. And I pulled that out of him with asking this
specifically several times.
RR himself said, in the beginning, that anyone can say something, but it is their actions that are PROOF.
OK, lets' look at his "actions" to prepare for these trips: He goes to
SE Asia Dec. 2004. By his own words, these trips consist of unplanned excursions into the country side, mostly by CHEAP local
transportation, in CHEAP Hotels.
He said he was getting to long in the tooth for that, so hopefully your conditions will be better. And
you all are real troopers that do not mind some inconveniences.
What will happen when the reservations have not been made or
are not kept by the Hotel? This is
the part that realy bothers me, how
RR discribes his DECEPTIVE AND PREPARED FOR ACTIONS in his 8/28 Newsletter: "whipping out my most
IMPRESSIVE business card" THAT IS A FAKE!!!! Would you do that?
"I reached into my bag and pulled out the DVD version of POP&ME
(Ha, take that, SCHMUCK!!!) something I had been saving for just such an occasion. I thrust it
into his GRUBBY LITTLE HANDS, and
SMUGLY WATCHED as Mr. Vinh slowly came to the realization how exceptionally fortunate that he, and his Hotel might,just might, be
to have me as a guest."
Mr. Vinh in his honesty would not even think that he is being deceived and lied to. So the SCHMUCK extends himself to this gloating American.
Yes, this blogging has been something very, very special for us
ladies. But that was not of RR's making, in fact, this was totally unexpected and surprising to him.
But than it would be to most men.
Any busted bubbles? THEY ARE JUST BUBBLES!!! We become a little foggy when a man is willing to commit.
If this gets past the blog police,
please wait with the flogging until
after Christmas, I got too much going to not be able to walk, and after than should be able to recover in time for skiing.
Ellen
bla, bla, bla.
Today is 9/11-A day which changed our lives forever. Let us never forget...God Bless America
prairie critter; You have a wonderful way with words! Thanks for the encouragement. I too was a little slow getting on the blogs but am feeling more comfortable now.
safari soul; Welcome to the wonderful world of Richard Roe's blog. You'll find many funny, witty, loving, caring, truly wonderful people here with a heart of gold and then a few others... well I just won't say anything because I'd rather just forget about them.
Sylvia aka heiresschild;
Congratulations on becoming a grandmother soon! Is this going to be your first grandchild? I know that California is a rather large state but if you'll be anywhere near me, I would love to meet you!
Thank you everyone who has commented on my blue dress. I wish I could give one to each of you, that would make me so happy :)
If anyone is interested, I have posted some pictures on my blog. Just click on my name here in blue and it will take you there...
I am going to cook dinner for my 84 year young mother now. I will check back in with the blog later this evening.
Have a beautiful Sunday
Ellen aka droma;
I don't remember you being so uptight in previous blogs? Everyone has the right to their opinion but I think most of us understand what the travel arrangements might be and we are willing to take that chance. Thank you for being concerned about our welfare but most of us are fairly independent and can take pretty good care of ourselves and if for some reason we're not happy with the circumstances at the moment, we'll do something about it...
I really have enjoyed reading some of your previous posts and was even going to comment once or twice but chose not to. My mother is an Oma too as she's from Holland. Where do you live in Germany? I love Germany and spent about 7 years there altogether.
I don't think your comments will be deleted beacause they really are not offensive to anyone, you're just stating your opinion.
Thank you...
I would like to make a correction to my previous comment to dr oma;
Her statements were a little offensive to Richard and I don't think he deserved that. Maybe she didn't see the humor behind Richard doing the things he did while traveling...ie; using his video to get a room at the hotel. I for one found that to be very funny! When I was living in Korea, I knew of someone who flashed his American Express card to get onto the base as he left his ID at home. It worked! The card was green, the same color as an active duty ID card. That's kind of scary though to know that anyone can do that and it's not a good thing for the safety of America. But in Richard's case, he was not hurting anyone.
Humor it was NOT
Ugly American it was!!
Maybe you lived too long on the base. Try the local economy for for awhile.
Dr. Oma, pardon the interruption.
Everyone is an adult on this site and knows full well the consequences of entering this type of traveling arrangement.
None among us are perfect, I challenge you to find a perfect man or woman.
One of qualities I find endearing about Richard Roe is his sense of humor. It may be a bit avant-garde for some like yourself, but in the end he means no real harm. I certainly don't think it sufficient evidence to label him one way or the other.
Don't rain on anyone's parade, it's just not fair. Thanks for giving love, romance and adventure a fighting chance.
from Sheila:
How's this for the unexpected...
ROMANCE, SENIOR-STYLE
An older couple were lying in bed one night. The husband was falling asleep but the wife was in a romantic mood and wanted to talk.
She said: "You used to hold my hand when we were courting."
Wearily he reached across, held her hand for a second and tried to get back to sleep.
A few moments later she said: "Then you used to kiss me."
Mildly irritated, he reached across, gave her a peck on the cheek and settled down to sleep.
Thirty seconds later she said :"Then you used to bite my neck"
Angrily, he threw back the bed clothes and got out of bed.
"Where are you going?" she asked.
"To get my teeth!"
Hi Friends, Well I had my 17 kids and a fun day it was. It's good to have them but now I've gotta clean up the cute little hand prints on the doors and windows and the crumbs in the floor but how blessed I am to have such a wonderful family. We talked about Christmas and decided not to exchange gifts for the first time but to put our money in a pot and send to Noah's Wishing Well for animals(we're all animal lover's ). I had seen on here where someone had contributed. Can anybody tell me about it? Also, my 8 greatgrandkids put their piggy bank change in an Angel can to send to Operah's angel network...coming to $74.80 total. I think they have a truly giving spirit. Of course they are all little dolls. Willimena, you should write a book. My son and daugher in law were at Ft. Ralley in Ks. and we'd drive up there about once a mo. to see them and they lived in military housing...2 story with 1 bath and it was upstairs. They made life long friends and have alot of great stories of those days. Will you be in Chicago? I want to meet you and be your friend. That goes for all of you. Richard is right this has become a bonding experience and I am so happy I saw Operah's rerun. I can't wait to hear the review of Dreamweaver on Pop and Me. I ordered 2 from SamGoodie here in Tulsa and 2 from Amazon and will bring them for autographing and give 3 as gifts. Thanks Prarie Critter for a moving and beautiful message...Reminds me of "For everything there Is a season"from Ecclesiastics I think and there was a beautful song too. My family watched my video I sent to Richard and got a really big laugh....said it needs to go to America's Funniest Home Movies. I'm NOT in it to win, just for fun. I've had my soulmate and he's waiting for me in heaven and if God wants me to have another it will happen in his good time.....Call me old fashioned. I believe God is a "HE". Hopefully we can start booking flights to Chicago tomorrow and meet face to face and tell our war stories. Much Love, MM
Just some silly Sunday reading.
Those whos name begin with ( R )
Does this sound like you Richard.
You are a no nonsence, action oriented individual.
You need someone who can keep pace with you and who is your intellectual equal, the smarter the better.
You are turned on more quickly by a great mind than by a great body.
However, physical attractiveness is very important to you.
You have to be proud of your partner.
You are privately very sexy, but you do not show this outwardly.
If your new lover is not all that great in bed, you are willing
to serve as teacher.
Sex is important; you can be a very
demanding playmate.
Hmmmm....I wonder.
Hey Richard!
October 1st would be an excellent weekend for Chicago! I have some ladie friends who want to meet you. Keep smiling! Hope to see you again! Michelle
Hello Ladies,
Richard is working very hard reviewing the final material submissions- the deadline for submission is post-marked September 16. As always, I am here to help to answer questions and to work with logistics, etc.
Thank you for all the terrific comments about the support found on this blog-- and thank you to the Ladies of the Blog for taking the time to answer questions that Richard hasn't the time to answer now. Leslie, Clickgirl, Auburnmichelle, Willemina and others. To the various Anonymous commenters, these Ladies have been on the Senior Bachelor Blog for a long time and have asked many of the same questions you are now asking. In addition, they came to the Manhattan Beach Event and heard Richard's answers firsthand to these and other questions. Please listen to their answers and respect the fact that they are trying to help you. If something is mis-stated or is incorrect, we'll try our best to correct it. Don't get yourself deleted by being rude and disrespectful.
There have been several assertive statements regarding a few subjects that I can address. All we ask is that if you have a concern, just ask a question. Please do not speculate- ask. The information on the website, the newsletters and the blogs is very carefully written (Richard has several of us review it) so please read these resources carefully and your questions may be answered.
As to concerning ourselves with the "small stuff". Well, the details are very important for such a meeting. Our overriding goal is to make the Event as affordable as possible and the Ladies who are coming comfortable, secure and relaxed so they can enjoy themselves with Richard and each other. No one need stay where we choose to stay or follow any of our recommendations. Continue traveling alone if you like.
Regarding "droma's" comments- if I can understand your diatribe it sounds as though you are asking can the Ladies he chooses expect the same kind of travel experience Richard describes in his Vietnam stories. He has stated several times (I don't have the time to research for you) that he will not be doing that kind of Adventure travel with his Perfect Traveling Companion. He was asked that question many times in MB and he answered it the same way. That is the way he likes to travel when he is alone and it is a challenge for him. So, please, ask questions and don't speculate on matters that can be so easily answered.
"Neva" asks "What, if anything, is being done to protect family privacy and safety and security of participants in this endeavor?" You can read the release on the website on the "Finding You" page on the Senior Bachelor website under item 4.
Thanks, Ladies!
-joe
I am going to continue to have wonderful memories of my days in MB meeting Richard and all the other wonderful women, with whom I feel I've made long-lasting friendships. I will ignore all the caustic and catty comments and pray that everyone finds some sort of peace in their lives.
If anyone is interested, come on over to my blog to see some photos taken today of my darling little 20-month-old grandson. He gave his Mommy a thick lip today when he threw a truck and it hit her. She's icing it constantly but poor thing, she is hurting! And of course Noah has no idea of what he's done. He was so loving with all of us today - hugs galore!
It is a beautiful day here in Vancouver - sunny and warm, but in the evenings you can now feel a teeny nip of Fall in the air. Oh how I miss the feel of that warm, soft sand sliding between my cute toes. I want to come back, Richard.
soft rain I like your posting today. So, Richard what do you think? Is she right on the money? Sounds good to me. :D
sheila, right on time again with your wit and humor. THANKS. much needed right about now. sometimes reading the blogs lately can wear a sista out with all of the different tonage (?is that a word for different tones? if not, i like it anyway!)
willemina, thanks for the congrats. this will be my daughter's 1st baby (girl). my son has 2 daughters, ages 5 months and a 5-yr old about to turn 6 yrs old on sept 30th, so that makes me a 3rd time grandmother. my daughter lives in san bernardino, and i have a brother who lives in clovis, ca so i know we'll have a reunion while i'm there.
what part of cali are u in? it is a large state, but perhaps i'll be able to work something out to meet you. that would be nice. u'd be the 1st person i'd be meeting from the blogs. how far are u from mb where rr, joe, and some of the ladies were the other week?
one thing i like about commenting on the blogs is we have a freedom to say whatever (some sites more than others); however, we still have to be respectful of one another. respect doesn't mean we call people names or insult them.
we've had an "anon" person on the blogs for a while that does just that. i don't know if this "anon" is the same one, but to this "anon," you are so rude. that was so ugly to say that to Willemina. it wasn't even necessary. u can state an opinion or make a statement without being so rude and crude.
Thank you Joe for responding to the safety and privacy question.
I am well aware of the public nature of the tape as covered in Finding you #4.
However, my question related more to the Chicago event and the safety of participants in Chicago since Chicago is the only US city where I previously felt unsafe when visiting.
The fact that there seems to be an increased interest in additional exposure for "the cause" seems to concern others as well as it relates to protecting our families.
Is the answer the same? If so, I believe some of us will be withdrawing our interest in Chicago.
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