Good Morning, July 6, 2005
I trust you all had a Happy 4th of July. This being a holiday for my sons and their families, I spent a lot of time with them. Like many of you, my family comes first and foremost and occupies a good deal of my time and thoughts. Who can resist playing with grandchildren? I found as a parent I did things I hadn't done in twenty-five years when I played with my children. And now, with my grandkids, I find myself playing games and doing things I hadn't done in over fifty years. I always marvel how simple things like a small plastic shovel and a pail at the beach brings hours
of wonder and fun to a child.
As I have said many times in my newsletters that this experience is brand new to me, and like on the Journey, things will develop along the way. I'll do my best to clear up a few questions. 1) By far the best way for me to communicate with you is through the Newsletters, and the best way for you to communicate with me is through the blogs. Things are extremely busy for me right now as I have started to review all of the videotapes, biographies, etc. This process takes at least 8 hours a day, and then I have additional tasks to perform for the Senior Bachelor endeavor. I will try to post at least one new blog each week and try to spend some time adding comments along the way. My priority is spending time reviewing the materials that have been sent in. 2) A commenter wrote that she e-mailed me and that I responded to her because she had taken the time to send in the videotape, etc, and that I mentioned to her that I give preference to the ladies who have sent in materials. This is true as quite frankly there are not enough hours in the day for me to respond to all of the e-mails-hence the Newsletters and the blogs. 3) One of my friends pointed out something to me over the weekend that was quite a remarkable statement. He said,"Man, Richard, the odds of going on the trip of a lifetime with you are so much better than winning the lottery! And they don't even have to buy a lottery ticket." Well, I do realize that each and every one of you are making an investment of time, attention and thought in this process. But, still, the odds are pretty good!
I am now writing this week's Newsletter, so I have to sign off. Very best wishes.
Richard Roe
of wonder and fun to a child.
As I have said many times in my newsletters that this experience is brand new to me, and like on the Journey, things will develop along the way. I'll do my best to clear up a few questions. 1) By far the best way for me to communicate with you is through the Newsletters, and the best way for you to communicate with me is through the blogs. Things are extremely busy for me right now as I have started to review all of the videotapes, biographies, etc. This process takes at least 8 hours a day, and then I have additional tasks to perform for the Senior Bachelor endeavor. I will try to post at least one new blog each week and try to spend some time adding comments along the way. My priority is spending time reviewing the materials that have been sent in. 2) A commenter wrote that she e-mailed me and that I responded to her because she had taken the time to send in the videotape, etc, and that I mentioned to her that I give preference to the ladies who have sent in materials. This is true as quite frankly there are not enough hours in the day for me to respond to all of the e-mails-hence the Newsletters and the blogs. 3) One of my friends pointed out something to me over the weekend that was quite a remarkable statement. He said,"Man, Richard, the odds of going on the trip of a lifetime with you are so much better than winning the lottery! And they don't even have to buy a lottery ticket." Well, I do realize that each and every one of you are making an investment of time, attention and thought in this process. But, still, the odds are pretty good!
I am now writing this week's Newsletter, so I have to sign off. Very best wishes.
Richard Roe
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Giving The Freedom To Live
Accepting The Journeys Of Others
Each of us, in life, walks on the special path that the soul is destined to undertake. Our journeys are very different and we progress at different rates. The pitfalls and blessings we encounter are unique, yet we are all learning and no one form of knowledge is more important than any other. Even so, when we observe others, it can be easy to pass judgment on their decisions and to assume their actions will correspond with what we feel is right. But for every problem, there are a multitude of solutions. Everyone makes mistakes and, while watching others do so can be frustrating, it is important that you accept each person's unique way of doing things. Giving others the freedom to act in the way they feel are best without the fear of harsh judgments honors the capacity for growth that all people possess.
It is helpful to practice accepting others as they are. Never judge the decisions of others based on the path you would have taken because every person lives by different values and experiences. Challenge is a universal concept, but we all deal with difficulties in our own way. Give others the space to fail, but don't harden your heart against their experience. It isn't wise to try and fix people or control situations. You may feel compelled to intervene when difficulties arise, but it is important only to offer guidance when asked unless the person is involved in a truly dangerous situation or cannot act for themselves. Failure to choose the right path or to make enlightened decisions is simply another step on the journey. It is a means to experience and wisdom. Letting go of the need to influence others does not discount offering loving support and it does not mean that you need to stop caring. It does mean stepping back, dissolving judgment, and gracefully allowing others! to live their own destinies.
Giving others the freedom to blossom in their own journeys gives you the freedom to take more notice of your own. You may not condone the actions you see taking place, but your reactions will be more loving by letting them be. And you will be able to focus on just being yourself, confident that the path you take is as right, valid, and special as any other.
Enjoy the Journey...
Senior-ella :)
Thank goodness you blogged today, Richard! And work on that newsletter...Reading the blogs, you can tell we natives were getting restless. I would fear for you right now if some of them had had access to you with little plastic shovels in their grip! Your head might have been in a little pail...lol Glad you had a great 4th and played nice with the other kids! Brenda
Morning All,
I am so glad, Richard, you had a fun relaxing weekend! You sound better.....
I too think this is a venture that gives all of us a better chance at going on the trip than the lottery!! I, however, have had a friend or two that keep reminding me of that!! Being one who loves instant gratification....ha....it is frustrating. We all wanta know...now... I am sure!! But, I have found that this journey, for me, is a true lesson in letting go and letting God. I am the worlds worst at that!! Could I be a bit controlling!! ???
Hope all have had a safe holiday!!
hugs, Linda
Thank you Ella for your words of wisdom. If we all adhered to some of those priciples what a grand world we would be living in.
We are all on a jouney - how we respond to circumstances on that jouney is our choice. I choose to be patient and wait to see what unfolds. Could be a yellow or a pink or a red flower but unfold it will and I can choose to accept or not.
Nothing like a great time with children - RR, glad you had a great week end.
BikingPrincess
Morning Richard,
Glad to hear from you and also happy to hear you had a wonderful weekend with kids and grandkids.
I noticed the ladies getting restless lately to hear from you but I, at least, figured it's a long weekend...and you'd get back to us when it was over.
We all know you're busy reviewing what has been sent in, but there was something you wrote that raised a teeny tiny red flag. You wrote "I have additional tasks to perform for the Senior Bachelor endeavor." This is a statement that makes me/us wonder what exactly is going on - is this simply a search for a travel/love companion or is it going to come down to a film or TV production or book as well?
I would love to send in a video with hopes of meeting you, but I hesitate because of the small print about allowing you to use our material in any way you choose.
I really think some of these things need to be clarified. It's in your best interest, too. You seem to be a smart man so I think you can figure out why.
In the meantime, I wish you well, and to the ladies out there, I am enjoying getting to know YOU.
Sincerely,
Leslie in VanCan
Senior Ella,
Very well thought out and I agree whole heartily, life is a journey that we are all on with many roads and curves. Attitude is everything. We learn from our experiences and others then decipher what it means to us. In addition to your letter though, people also need to make sure they take responsibility for their decisions and actions, especially when affecting others. Only if everyone had a positive, caring attitude would the world be the most grand place to of all!! :) Michelle
Aloha
Great progress.
A small shovel and pail at the beach brings hours of excitement and fun to adults (seniors especially) as well, me thinks!
Enjoy
Richard,
Life in the eyes and heart of a child, it puts a warm smile on your face remembering the simple things. :) Michelle Bahr
to Ricardo
If, as you say, "the best way for you to communicate with me is through the blogs" and you have "started to review all of the videotapes, biographies, etc. This process takes at least 8 hours a day, and then I have additional tasks to perform for the Senior Bachelor endeavor."...It's definitely like I've said before: Tiger by the TAIL!! YeeHAW!
Would love to know how you transcend THAT time warp & still have some of it left for us plodding llllowly bloggers! Grrrrrr! :)
Aloha Richard :)
Thank you for the feel good and positive message t'day!
My three children mean the world to me too! As previousely mentioned my daughter leaves for Israel on July 13th for 11 days,
an experience of a lifetime! I don't mean to push the river but am looking forward to my own Grandchildren(that is the term used in South Africa) I guess Grandkids is the term used in U.S.A ? :) Still a fair amount of water to go under the bridge as they are in their early 20's and
marriage is not 'on the books' at the moment(for them). Having been on the Soulmate Campaign Trail for 18 years, whatever fate befalls me
pertaining to this correspondence going back and forth, I look forward to the element of the unknown for Life is full of surprises. Whichever direction the gentle wind carries me, that is where I need to be, for everything works out according to a Divine Plan, how it works, I haven't a clue but trust and certainty in the process is absolutely essential!
So, carpe diem
Live Life With Passion!
Senior Bachelorette:)
Vj...alias ~~flowingwhitewater~~
Toronto Canada
p.s. I certainly aim to make my 'WILDEST DREAMS COME TRUE', my children agree on that for sure! :)
....to be continued..... :)
Hello Richard!
Nice to hear from you again, I must say pictureing you with the idea of a plastic shovel and bucket is amusing!
It's good to know that you spend so much time with your family.
My grandaughters are a little old to be playing at the beach (except Amanda she's 17 and I wonder about her!)
Both Amanda and Amber are computer freaks and I'm still dazed and confused about the whole thing! haha!
Anyway, have a good one!
Keep us up to date!
Gerrie.
Suzanne of Mesa Arizona
So Glad to hear that all you Ladies and Richard had such a fun weekend. I traveled from Mesa (115 degrees) to Bellevue Idaho. Bruce Willis, Demi Moore, Barbara Streinson, and lots of other celebrity have homes in Haily. When Bruce Willis came up here I understand from the locals here that he brought in a lot of new growth. Well because of him and all the very wealthy people (which I'm not included :>) up here they put on one of the most spectacular fireworks displays I have ever seen. It was a real treat. Some of the fireworks used I have never seen before, one that especially caught my eye was called a ferriswheel. Don't know how in the world they did it but it was complete circles of different colored lights.
Glad to know that Richard is starting to review tapes. Please Richard, don't judge my tape too harshly, I'm better looking than the tape reveals, but mainly I'm lots funnier.
Senior Ella thank you for your very wise message. I think I judged Stephanie a little to hard - sorry Stephanie. I try to be kind to every living creature, no matter how large or small, but God only knows I'm human and haven't quite perfected my mouth.
Good Day to all, peace, love, gentle thoughts, serenity.
Suzanne of Mesa Arizona
Break time for me too after several hours into another PERFECT day. A little bit of me slips into thinking " I wish I hadn't started it alone, or why am I alone right this minute?" I couldn't/wouldn't be writing here or learning from you if I wasn't alone. Silly me!!! Perfect is PERFECT!! This space is pregnant with opportunities for MORE with different People, Places and things.
God willing, my life long mate will know how to lead, follow, help or stay out of the way. As I ck the blogs, wanting to hear from Richard, I am also reminded that what I say is a representation of ME and how I handle things. My complaints or efforts to force issues make about as much sense as if I were to complain about the sex/violance on my own VCR.
I was also reminded a couple days ago by a group of professional golfers who, as a group, agreed that the CHIEF factor dictating whether Champions continue to win or not, is their ability to stay focused on their goal.
I worked another 12 hours in ER at my hospital yesterday. Ladies and gentlemen, No one I talked with had planned to be there as a patient. We are all so lucky to have today!! even those with various problems who teach the value of on going care, sharing, adaptibility, attitudes and LOVE. None of us are in this alone or exactly the same as we were yesterday. Thank you, everyone. Mary Rose
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Good evening everyone :)
Interesting reading today!
Words of wisdom indeed from Senior-ella.
I am going to quote 2 of 'The Four Agreements' written by Don Miguel Ruiz based on ancient Toltec wisdom.
l. Be Impeccable with your Word.
i.e. speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.
3. Don't Make Assumptions
Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ok.... that's enough quoting other people. For those who may wish to take it on board ... great. For those who don't ... great also. We are all on different journeys at different spaces.
I would ask you Richard to have a look at these quotes and maybe you can see their relevance in various blogs over the last few days ... no judgements implied here .... again just openness.
In the meantime, I, and others, have asked questions which have not been answered. Indeed when I read your blog today I too 'to quote Leslie' noticed a 'tiny red flag'.
It will indeed be interesting to see if you answer any or all of the questions in this week's newsletter.
I am, however, mindful of the fact that this blog can be read by anyone, anywhere on the www and our words and posts can be used anywhere, anyway and anytime. So again, I say to you Richard, cmon, bite the bullet and answer the questions re privacy, small print, the real deal etc. At the end of the day, what have you got to lose by being very upfront and honest.
I also noted with some disquiet your reference to your friend commenting on 'winning a trip with you versus winning the lotto'.... a trifle arrogant, in my opinion, and indeed seems to compound the 'competition' element that you seem to deny.
To Blueeyes:
Hey girl, I don't think you need to worry about Richard. All the ladies who are so richly contributing to this blog are cool. Without them there would be no interaction.
To Happy:
My friend .... I agree with you totally. Hell, I hope you DID NOT lose 40 lbs by lunchtime ... lol.
You rock girl and your integrity shines.
To Suzanne of Arizona:
In my opinion, you're very brave to make that remark about Stephanie. You may/or may not remember that I posted a blog asking that people lay off her. She did have a right to be angry because she was telling the truth. So good for you girl.
So, for one, who last night was withdrawing from the blog, I'm doing an awful lot of talking here ... lol. However, I know you guys will bear with me or just skip over it.
Love to all
Ciao ....... P
Hello, Hello, Richard, I am so pleased you have arrived home safe and sound. Now time to catch up huh? so much to do! and then there are people like us, wanting to know more, details about ALL/ some of the matters at hand to be cleared up. I do understand though my family has always come first, and will continue too. that is just the way it is.
words of wisdom.. by senior - ella thank you sounds like you are very wise. I printed what you wrote. I am going to re-read it.
little things that bug me.. not to stir the pot again or anything but.. SOMEONE ELSE BROUGHT HER UP SO.. IT BUGS ME OKAY..
I have often wondered.. In the 2nd Blog course?? I think.. just what was the favour that Richard asked Stephanie to do? was it to stir all of us up? to get some reactions? to get conversations? to make things interesting? what happened to Stephanie? hummm..
This of course is for the New Bloggers, so they can catch up on the SAGA of our lives.
Richard, I am so happy you are back! ooops a repeat...
I can't wait for the NEWS LETTER IN HOPES IT WILL ANSWER SOME OF THE QUESTIONS!! My daughters are asking me to re-do my video.. after all, the are my best judges.. they said I said the same thing more than twice!! humm go figure, maybe a little nervous???
any way I can't wait to meet all of you, you are all so wonderful..
well now it is time I get going, I will head off to the lake and catch some more sun and have some fun with my date, remember this one is 63, and a ball of fire... Until tomorrow.
Have a Wonderful Day,
Wanda
Hello Richard please answer before you press send on that newsletter or blog,
Have read your newsletters, watched POP&ME, read the blogs and feel you have divulged quite a bit of information. I do however have one question that is of concern. You mentioned that you would be visiting certain towns in July and August but the deadline for sending in materials is now September. Will that change your date to visit certain towns for interviews? Wondering about this because what happens to those who may send in video etc. near the end of the deadline? Also your comment about additional tasks for SB did raise curiosity.
I am very happy and relieved to hear that you like to spend time with your grandchildren and family, I do as well and it is very important to me. My 3 grandchildren are all under 3 1/2 and loads of fun, as you
know they can keep you running, but it is pure magic to be a grandparent. I am also happy that you are dedicating most of your time to reviewing the material sent to you, then secondly the bogs.
For the record, I will be submitting my materials within the next couple of weeks after a visit with daughter number three, fiancé and rescued puppy who has just undergone extensive back surgery, back his scruffy self...granpuppy you might say!
Hope your pinched nerve is better, sometimes it takes a little while. Ladies, not trying to get back on that subject, just being realistic. Just because something is discussed doesn't mean it's gone away. Also, ladies, playing the devil's advocate, how would you handle this blog thing if you were in Richards shoes? Not being defensive here, but I had to ask myself that question as well. This is a strong, courageous group of women, so Richard you won't have to worry about someone not being upfront with you.
Popcorn222
ooops, wasn't going to write so soon, but speaking of things that bug me, I guess I m just in that kind of mood, senior- ella...
after re-reading your beautifl words of wisdom.. it seems as though I have read them some where else.. can you enlighten me here? have you maybe picked some or all of them from a book? I just can't quite put my finger on it.. ummm if not I do appologize. But it is so familiar.
Wanda
senior-ella thank you!! Sanity to the blog world. It is too bad we do not make mud pies any longer. I want to be Peter Pan in a sense that is why I joined the venture to have fun and adventure not to worry about what Richard is doing every day. I would hate to go through hundreds+ of videos ( mine is bad, because, I too (Happy) am funnier and hopefully better looking than that video. I had to prop the camera on books and then make sure I could be seen. It was hysterical. Me running back and forth. Anyway ladies of the Fellowship and Richard have a good day. Carry on!!! Laughter to you!!!
Senior-ella, perfectly said,
Thank you,
Popcorn222
Grandchildren are the bonus for having children. I watch my granddaughter (14 months) 2or 3 days a week. We just play all day. She is taking swimming lessons so we spend a good deal of time in the pool.
The words from senior-ella were food for thought.
I am in Fl so we are under bombardment from the news media about Dennis. After going through 3 last year most of us know what to do. I believe the talking heads become orgasmic about the storms.
How many bloggers have actually sent in a tape? I am still very hesitant about this. The one time I watched The Bachelor on tv I was amazed how the young women could go on national tv and be humilated.
Also, do you all think everyone is telling the whole truth and nothing but the truth in this format?
uh oh.. hey guys guess what? when I mentioned going back and re-reading the 1st blogs- I discovered that women are still posting on them like yesterday... hello.. here we are, keep reading, come on love to hear from you, maybe if he popped in on them, maybe I should.. humm I wonder if Richard knows that?
oh bye the way HAPPY... remember when I wanted the letter translated? it was!! the lady said she could show us all around chili. she was married and couldn't enter, but would love to be our host or something like that.
any way gotta go..
good night guys..
Wanda
to caio...P
Hey--If we win the lotto we can do our own Bachelorette 'contest'--OR just take the $$ and RUN! :)
And no---no 40 pounds by lunch--drat. But IF I ever do, I'm gonna get RICH fer shure!
The Toltec wisdom definitely presents us with intelligent, sensitive guide to behavior.
to popcorn222
oooooooooOO--goodie! goodie! an entertaining question--a doggie treat, to hold us over until we get that long-awaited bone! LOL! (Hey, WAIT! Ya reckon this is a Richard 'plant'??) :) It DOES sound like he could use some help.
popcorn222's question: "playing the devil's advocate, how would you handle this blog thing if you were in Richards shoes?"
Well, Advocate, With my Happy devil-may-care-attitude I'd be having a BLAST!! :) but I would :
#1 organize like #^&@&# !!
CHECK WITH DR. PHIL
#2 make sure the FCC & legal staff were as Happy as I AM :)
CHECK WITH OPRAH
#3 Make sure I didn't artificially shorten the application date.
CHECK WITH DR PHIL
#4 make sure all applicants MET ALL my stated criteria
CHECK WITH OPRAH
#5 READ bios like a college professor! i.e.,FAST-but thoroughly.
CHECK WITH DR PHIL
#6 Watch videos 'til my eyeballs fell out-Remembering that this is only 3 lousy minutes in the poor saps life & maybe he was having a bad day! I'd judge words, i.e. reasons for applying, attitude, physique (wondering WHY that HUNK needed to apply for this trip with ME!)
CHECK WITH OPRAH
#7 Try to remember WHY I was doing this in the first place
DEFINITELY CHECK WITH DR PHIL
#8 Fall down "with my face to the risin' sun" and THANK T. Edison & the powers of Oprah & electronics in general for the ILLUSION which was infusing every known bachelor over the age of 40 to claim undying adoration to MOI - MOI - MOI !!!! YESSSS!!!!
CHECK WITH DR PHIL and OPRAH !!!
THEN: I'D CHECK WITH: my kids, my family, my friends, my neighbors, the guy on the street, for THE thing that THEY and only THEY will honestly in love give you:
A REALITY CHECK!! LOL!
THEN: I'd hope, against hope (Happy skeptic that I am), that I'd find a Prince among the frogs. :)
LOL ... LOL @ Happy ...
Yes indeed ....... I'd take the dollars and run .. ok!
You doing devils advocate is very funny but I think you covered all angles in a businesslike manner.
Like yourself, I would definitely take an active part in something I'd set up. That's my reply also to Popcorn222. However, I wouldn't refer back to Oprah or Dr. Phil. Not familiar enough with them. I'd go on my own gut instinct as I suspect you would too and like you I'd have a blast.
So 'Senior Bachelor Endeavour Inc' would appear to a thing apart from the search for a travelling companion etc. No doubt all will unfold in time.
Lots of love everyone ....
Ciao .......... P
Welcome to everyone from Portland, OR. Grams had a melt down that we are staying in a city again. So we are leaving in the morning, after rush hour is over, and just having dinner here in the hotel. I tried reasoning with her, but to no avail. No more cities. So we are heading to National Parks , hopefully see some of this gorgeous Oregon coast first, and I guess even seeeing "O" in Vegas is out now.(so much for spending a few days with my adopted daughter) I will come back out with Lauren (my biological daughter and her best friend)after her MCATS and see Andrea for a few days.
And Portland doesn't have traffic. She wants back roads, she's got them. AH, you have to love being 90 and getting your way. I am thinking a spoiled 2 year old is much more like it. It's a good thing I made no plans after Washington state, deliberately. I wanted to see how she handled the first 6 weeks.
Sorry for griping. Just need to vent some. Back on the road again.
Welcome back Richard! My tape was only a little over a minute. So it won't take long.
Have an awesome day everyone.
Good Evening Richard.. Ladies,
The time you mentioned with your family makes you sound so real, especially the time spent with grandchildren. I'm with mine a couple days a week and know how precious the time with them is. I cherish every moment. They have such an innocense about them. Glad you had a nice weekend..now back to the grind..lol
To Happy: No, I have not walked the Mackinac bridge, but would be glad to join you. You wouldn't lose 40# doing it, but you would definately know you took a trek. I live at the gym and do a lot of cardio work, and like I said earlier, if I'm not in Tahiti with Richard (lol), I will be competing in my first bodybuilding contest in April. So no need for me to travel 8 hours north for a walk on the bridge. (sorry, just threw that in, braggin' rights..lol)
In one of my earlier blogs I asked if Richard was putting faces (from videos) with the bloggers. His answer was no, that there were too many videos. I did send in my video and that tells me that I didnt make as big of an impression that I thought I would. Makes me wonder how many "Marlyn's from Michigan", sent in their materials...Maybe I'm just full of myself..lol..I'll come down here in a minute..lol (laugh with me)
Back to Happy, your monologue with Dr. Phil and Oprah, was HILARIOUS!! You should be scripting your own series!
Back to Richard: Did you remind your friend that we were invited? No lottery ticket required?
I am pleased and thrilled that so many of us have had this opportunity to join in on this journey. I have to admit, it has been somewhat consuming, mysterious and entertaining at the same time. Thank you for the invitation, it's very generous indeed. But most of all, it's the chance to possibly meet my soulmate. My search continues...
All my best to you Richard,
Marlyn
to Forest Hills
Forcin' me to really WORK, huh?!
Okdoke...Tag! You're it! :)
Here's the way:
Above the 'comment' box -- see the note "You can use some HTML tags.."etc. These little lovlies allow me (or anyone else :) to emphasize their script via boldening, italiscizing, or enhancing their writing.
Check back on some of my annoying :) comments--or just keep reading and you'll see what I mean. :)
If you have a book on writing HTML it's fairly easy to learn to use these three...but sorta a pain in the caboose. Slows down the thought process a bit. Probably a GOOD thing for moi!
Try them out. Then hit the preview button. (THIS handy-dandy little button allows you to see what your stuff looks like - THEN, IF you're Happy--or Forest Hills, or even Suzane, you have a CHOICE to PRINT or EDIT.--just so you won't be shocked, it PREVIEWS pukey green, but when you hit the publish button the color goes away.)
If you don't do the HTML stuff right the daggone computer's smarter'n we are & it sets us straight post haste with a little pop-up window saying where the mistake is.
As for RR "backing off"..I'd say NO, as for him being overwhelmed, I'd say PROBABLY.
When a school Super received over 500 A+ 100% qualified applications for a Social Studies position, (there are LOTS of those!) the Principal went to her and said, "HOW the *&#$& am I supposed to choose the BEST applicant from among THESE?!!" Super said, "Just toss the applications down the stairwell and whichever one lands at the bottom first, call them!!
I reckon Richard just might feel like that... :) We should ALL have such a delicious problem!!
to ciao...P
Hang in here--we can still have some fun & help keep "the REASON" in front of us all. :)
to marlyn from michigan
(OH Man!--don't give me ammo...I just love to feed off it!)
And Sonofagun!! I reckon "It ain't braggin' if you can DO it." And if you can...a POX on you---"you dirty Rat, you!" LOL :) My body's built already!! I'm lookin' to UN-build it a bit!!
to all
Betcha wish my grandkids would hurry up and get here--so I'd retire from blogging--temporarily! :)
To HAPPY and Anonymous,
I am Popcorn 222 and not a Richard ploy, but a real person that fits the FFF criteria. You guys...ladies are histerical and sharp. After reading the blogs I started to think how would I feel if I were Richard and this was my endeavor? Trying to be a fair minded person, criteria for my job and past experiences in a sport, I had to close my eyes and see how it felt if all of this input was directed toward me. I figured I would read everything, but really live up to paying close attention to ALL materials received.
Just logged on since like the blogette from FL, storms have been the focus of the news. Tropical storm Cindy caused quite a stir here with a huge percentage of the city losing power, downed trees and flodded homes. Had to shower by flashlight then go to work. Maybe it's good preparation. HaHa.
I did seriously want Richard to answer the city visitation question and am happy to see your comments.
Warm Regards to all. You are turning me into a blogger and I didn't have a clue what this was before last week.
Popcorn222
Happy, I LOVED your DA position of managing the blog. Laughed like hell--and I love to laugh. Thank you.
Wanda, yes, some of us still post on those old, forgotten blogs. I can't always keep up (busy trying to get the house in shape for hurricanes and for upcoming trip to Alberquerque), so I go in there and see what new items have been added--easily done by going to the bottom and working up. I translated the Spanish post, for instance. My daughter-in-law is from Columbia, so I get a lot of practice even though I miss some things. Speaking of missing things,the most recent blogs don't seem to appear on the index automatically. So if any of you get the urge to help out a newbie, check in on old blogs that have been updated. Your notice was very helpful on one of the first.
Last point--I don't usually buy lottery tickets, but I have been known to dig in sand before. Here's hoping somebody doesn't jump on the castle.
Wow, this sounds like a wonderful and fun adventure and I wish I could be part of it but alas, my children are still young - 8 & 11 and being away from them for one month or more is out of the question - it would kill me. So, I wish you, Richard, the best of luck in finding the "One" that completes you or as we Irish like to say....May good luck be your friend in whatever you do and may trouble be always a stranger to you.
Annie
Hello Richard,
I am working on my video as we speak. Count on me in the Chicago area. Since I don't gamble on the lottery, because of such small odds, I wonder why I am considering this? Because I want to see the world but with someone who would be able to be my guide.
Thanks for the opportunity to even be considered for the chance.
Chandra
Well Richard, it sounds like you and the others here had a great holiday weekend, as did I. In addition to enjoying my granddaughters, my Colorado daughter came home and brought her very nice young man to meet us. Also, a cousin from the East Coast and her family stayed with me – a wonderful opportunity (without the chaos of a wedding or Bat Mitzvah) to better know her husband and girls. Val and I talked until the wee hours every night, so happy to have the rare and precious time together. I had intended to get someone to video part of the weekend, for possible inclusion in my submission to you, but with all the cooking and chattering, and watching the kids playing together and enjoying the local parade, it just never happened. ‘Too bad, as I looked quite fetching stumping along at top speed in my soft to-the-knee cast, the result of a severely sprained ankle suffered a couple of weeks ago.
Changing subjects, I love the words of wisdom (and humor) that so many of the gals here are willing to share. And to those who have concerns about how their words and videos may be used, here's how I see it. First, I feel it’s possible to express who we are without saying things that would embarrass us if repeated in public. We can only be humiliated if we fail to act with grace and integrity. Second, I think it’s important to trust the process. For if we are honest with ourselves, it isn’t Richard and the trip we seek. We don’t know Richard and trips are nice, but not the true goal for either Richard or for most of us. We each (including Richard) want the person who is RIGHT FOR US. And who is to say what may come from this strange journey? We can only hope that it will be something that helps us grow and understand and perhaps leads us closer to the ones who will make each of our hearts sing.
Hey Richard! I had to drop a quick note because thanks to your recent visit to Oprah, which lead me to this site, which lead me to your DVD with your son, Pop and Me, I finally purchased the DVD to watch. What a FABULOUS job everyone did, including you and Chris. I really enjoyed it and I hope that everyone here rents it from Netflix or locally or purchases it. But readers, subscribers, see it! Its an amazing job and I have watched it four times (more if you count the two commentary viewings actually,) and there are so many nuances... great editing, great storytelling with the footage you had... So I wanted to login here to tell you and everyone else reading this blog. Good luck on your new adventure and I'm certainly ESPECIALLY curious now how it all turns out! :) I'll be reading...! But thank you and everyone involved for 'Pop and Me'. Great job, I really enjoyed it and hope many others will get a chance to see it now as well.
Hello Richard and all our friends in London U.K. thoughts and prayers are with you at this trying time.
Stay safe
G-D Bless
Senior Bachelorette
Vj....alias ~~flowingwhitewater~~
Toronto Canada
p.s. same applies to our Floridian friends with the hurricane season already in progress!
to RIchard
Do you read the biographies first or view the tapes first?
"It isn't wise to try and fix people or control situations. You may feel compelled to intervene when difficulties arise, but it is important only to offer guidance when asked" ...
Words worthy of repetition and consideration. Including to the author.
Well Good Mornin' Richard, Ladies,
How are you all this mornin?
As a great laugh in the mornin' is as good as a work out.. Thank you- Happy.
To Our FL friends: prayers are with you always.
And of Course the mother instinct in me is always worried that someone is going to get left behind, so I went back and posted on all of the other blogs sites and asked the Ladies to join us here.. I hope they do.. I wouldn't want for anyone to say well I didn't know..
Senior-Ella: umm I hate to bother you, but you have not responded to my question that I asked yesterday, is there a reason why?
Travelin: Your Grams must be an Aries!! she sounds a lot like me...
My date last night was nice, great conversation, great food, and of course wonderful company!
So here I am starting my day off on the blog!! then my grandson and I are going to do what he wants (his choice today!).
I will check in later..
Have a wonderful day til then,
Wanda
to wanda & all
check the news--it's an 'un-happy' day today in London. don't really want to get into politics--but sometimes wonder what it would be like if women ruled the world?
Shhhhhh - women do rule the world!
Will you accept VHS-C type tapes for review? If not, what format should they be?
Richard,
I must say, I do love the hot pink pants in the tennis pic! ;0) You know only REALLY secure men can wear pink! Bravo! BTW, pink is my very favorite color!
Hi there Mr. Rocken Roe,
Great race we are all in & what fun. I e-mailed you today with the same message & more, to make sure you recieve it. I am one of the May Day!May!...gals that jumped the hoops & hurdles to get you the video, that I am still laughing about. So, if we don't get chosen we can all send our video,s into the funniest home video TV show and I know one of us will surely win!!Ha-ha
I am the x-flight attendant who lives between you & oprah,and I us to live in Manhatten Beach. I just wanted to tell you that I loved the "He thinks I am God" joke. So, cute which brings up a ???? that I know women of subtance will be wondering about, but may be afraid to ask. Some of us would like to know what your relationship is with the Lord? Maybe some of us would not be interested if you were chanting on JU JU beads in front of a monkey, frog or something! Yeh! OK I said it. (smile) As so many of us should know we were not evenly yoked or we would not be a blogging to you right now, right?. For this is a fun,funny,serious search for that special soulmate. Your notebook friend. See you at the races on Derby Day!! XOXOX=CJ
Hi Richard
I am responding to your question on the newsletter about the tennis celebrities in the photo. Well the picture is too small to see anyone or make out faces so given the year I would guess Bobby Riggs and Billy Jean King? Am I correct? Do I win a date with you? :) Also it is always great to hear about you and your family. I love the way you enjoy them. I can't wait to be chosen to travel with you. I love it!
Ciao,
Paula in Florida
G'day Richard!
An interesting Newsletter t'day!
I wish I lived closer, would most definitely love to hear you teach/talk, considering that my eldest Son is persueing his dream of becoming a Director/Producer etc. and currently attending Ryerson University. Trevor would gain a lot from hearing you too!
I am fascinated by the elusive Druze...Zorastrians....etc. and always try to learn as much as possible about the ancient lineaqe
of Mayan/Aztec and even Atlantis which I firmly believe existed, and that the people were very advanced technologically and spiritually.
I too love animals but have no pets as it takes away from being very flexible and acting on impulse, should the opportunity arise! I most definitely will not have more children as my three are
entering a new phase of their lives and feel it important to 'be there' so to speak. I am ready to embark on a new leg of my Life's Journey with my 'potential soulmate'/travelling companion:)to go 'out on a limb'
Wishing you sunshiney days and lots of laughter:)
Carpe Diem
'out of africa' :)
Senior Bachelorette
Vj...alias ~~flowingwhitewater~~
Toronto Canada
p.s. ooooh weeee those pink pants...lol ...you are a brave Warrior!
well ... well ...Richard ... and still no replies to the major questions asked except 'do you like pets' .... 'doh' ... and a big ad for e-harmony .... a service which you haven't used !!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ahhhhhhh Richard .... even I, a model of patience ..... am seeing no light!!
Speak to me someone ... tell me my intuition is not right (even though I know it is).
Good luck Richard with whatever is going on.
Lots and lots of love to everyone else here ... you deserve it.
Love ... light ... and ciao .... P
p.s. special love and light to my neighbours in London on this very difficult day... xx
to ciao..P
Still looks pretty darn dark to moi, aussi, except for the may-he-never-live-them-down--PINK pants! Oh No! "Superman!...Say it isn't so!" In fairness, RR did mention the type of reading he prefers.
ciao too, ciao...P
And his e-Harmony disclaimer surprised me too. I felt there was an implication he'd tried & not matched...just my opinion, I suppose.
I filled out the questionnaire one day out of curiosity and found out one thing: IF you DON'T take their 'bait' & join up right away, they will inundate you with LOWER & LOWER offers...which I also wasn't interested in. (Which is why I was surprised at my initial interest in this.)
So HOLD OUT and sooner or later you'll get a small dollar deal for a shorter length of time!! Interesting, huh?
Looked at Match.com on daughter's list. It's cheaper and they all have similar computer software.
to ?
Ya sure Richard Simmons isn't in that photo? :)
to Richard
Do we get to send in pics from our hey-day to you? I've got some hip-huggin' bell-bottoms that'll keep ya guessing...about a LOT o' things! Doesn't leave much-except my judgement-in the dark.
Hey Happy ........
Good to hear from you hon ... Been a little bit down today which is not something I generally would say on this because as we know, one doesn't know where one is going to be quoted (however, one can sue!!!). Think its probably the London thing ... I know it brings back horrible memories of NY and Madrid for everyone and for me personally the Dublin bombings back in '73 which nobody was held accountable for.
Anyway, don't want to dwell on it and when I logged on to reply to some mail etc and discovered the latest newsletter I thought ... great .... some of the privacy, small print, blah blah questions will be answered. But alas ... no ... In fact, by the very absence of replies, the whole thing should be in PINK .... lol. (so that no-one can read it).
However, its clear that a lot of people here love the newsletters and maybe know something I don't.
To Wanda:
Good for you babes for posting an update letter on all of the previous blogs to drag everyone up to date :). You deserve a personal reply from RR as this is the blogmaster's job presumably (correct me if I'm wrong Happy??).
Incidentally I haven't checked out the BLOG SWARM noun/adjective?
How did it bring down J. Kerry et al? Wasn't aware of this.
To 'Anonymous' who posted a reply to Seniorella re her posting ... excellent reply ... especially your last sentence :).
Love to one and all ...... (even the ones who are probably going to call me 'negative' ... ;)).
Ciao ......... Phyl
Thank you, Richard. I understand that many things are in flux and you don't know anything for sure, so you can't tell us. I appreciate hearing from you anyway and hope, as the others do, that one day a newsletter shows up that *will* clarify things for so many of the wonderfully witty women posting here. I enjoyed the small background you gave on the Etruscans. Thank you. Whereabouts did you stay in Italy? I have yet to visit and am looking into home exchange possibilities. Your pink pants made me smile; around the same time period I believe I wore some orange diamond (shaped print) bell bottoms. Ha! Life can be such fun when you dare. I very much wish you happiness in choosing a companion.
Thank you to all of you thinking of us in FL as we begin the hurricane season (coming a bit earlier than expected this year).
My heart goes out to the victims' families in London right now. Will humans never stop taking lives to force others to do their will?
BLOG SWARM question directed to 'Happy' ...... sorry for confusion guys ;) ..... Phyl
Dear Richard and new Friends, Thank you for the update and info. I had not known about the pre Roman History and so many other cultural tidbits flowing here. I do know some about the pre Computer history when progress was slower, info. was less easily shared, projects were done more by Manpower, Relationships knew fewer options, etc., etc.. (Some of us here even know pre Dating Services and pre Oprah.) All only good for learning how to do Today and Tomorrow better!!! Life's course & decisions are still dictated by the underlying basics: FEAR and/or LOVE. Helping others remains a much needed, worthwhile mission. If I were setting up files, I believe that after the basics 'Benchmarks' were satisfied, experiences and current activities would be most important in helping with all of your yet to be unfurled adventures. (That screaning would even hold in searching for a professional camera man.) I am glad to read that you teach. I know "People Handling" must be an important issue with filmaking as it is with everything else, again coupled with Teamwork. The most important thing I ever learned at a seminar, was from Margaret Thatcher (spelling is not my strong suit). She stood before us, tall and elegant. She looked straight out at what seemed like all of us at once and slowly said "You can not fight today's wars with yesterdays tools!"
On the lighter side, My improvised Film making attempt (video) was made with the excitment and talents likened to that of a 3 year old.=Bad technical combination, but children are honest and fun. Richard, you must have laughed when you read me quoting Sheakspear: "Life is a stage." I still hope that the "Big Director" has trained me for a part by your side. Mary Rose
Richard, Your entrepreneurial skills are coming through re: the ad for e-Harmony! Such a gig...you encourage us all to get more people signed up for the newsletter, which contains info on a service that you have not tried which you get paid for if we bite on! BTW, the ladies here are sooo thirsty for info and answers to questions so let me tell you....e-Harmony would drive you nuts as far as being able to ask direct questions to a potential match. They control the contact content, don't use pictures, etc. It is slow going and in my opinion lame in this era of instant info/gratification.
I signed up for this journey when the 6 month trip was used for bait. 1 month turns it into the kind of trip I could take myself on, or go with any of the countless senior bachelor gents found on a much more fun dating site (match.com) Sorry for the whining!!
Well this is my first time writing on this Blog..
Hi Richard....
Hmmmm where to begin
I did see you on the Oprah show and found your concept very sweet and honest.Being close to Oprahs age I have followed her since day one, she has become wise beyond her years and has shared her wisdom with the world, greatly improving many lives,not to mention the planet itself, She is and shall remain my Idol.You could not of chosen a better person or place to announce to the world, you are ready, willing, and able to taste of the fruit of LOVE once again,(like standing on the highest mountain, shouting out at the top of your lungs for all to hear... Honey Im ready, Ill be there soon!! What a wise choice, but then thats who you are....A wise man that waited for a very long time for the right moment, to be with the right women...so very nobel and romantic...like a true Knight that has battled the dragon and is now free to find and join his Lady. I can see that you are a very down to earth type of person and like to go straight to the source, you prefer to deal with situations with an honest,kind, open,straight forward and hands on method and you know that LOVE is what its all about,LOVE is all there is,nothing else matters.So many folks just dont get it and some never will.You are a nature Lover,an animal Lover a people lover.You love to sit and gaze out over the horizen and feel one with the world. The wind in your hair,the ocean crashing against the rocks as you sit by the open fire gazing out to the stars as they twinkle and wink at the moon, you are one with nature surounded by the elements an almost perfect moment as you glance over beside you, an empty spot still waiting to be filled, you wonder where she is?Who she is? You realize there is no more time to waste,you must find her now, you now know she needs you as much as you need her....LOVE is all there is....She also has waited a great amount of time for the right moment, the right person.
She is as you are a great LOVER of all that is good.She is the reflection of your inner soul.....the person you have traveled so far to become...the real you.
And you will not care what colour her eyes are or if she eats meat nor if she takes cream and sugar in her coffee,no you will not care if she dips her cookies in milk or pulls them apart and eats the cream first..hmmmmm....
What you will care about is the Love that flows from her heart,how she makes you feel when she cuddles up to you under a warm blanket by the fire as the sun sets or how she will laugh as you try to catch her as she runs across the beach,or when you catch her stealing a loving glimps of you... her eyes smiling, yes that is what you will care about!!
Good Afternoon Richard...Ladies,
Yes, I love the pink pants too..funny they look just like my Christie pants from VS. They are my favorite. I also admire a man that wears pink. A sign of security.
AHHHHH, finally words about the dating service. I, too, took the lonnnnngg personality test with e-harmony and signed up for 3 months. This was a year ago. I personnaly do not care for their process. (sorry Richard) I don't think they ever fully understood the importance of health and fitness to me. Some of the applicants they sent my way were sporting some, how can I put this...let's just say, they didnt look like they had ever seen a gym. Also at the time, I wasn't sure as to how high of an age I'd be willing to date. At the time 64 seemed just a little out of range for me..again, sorry Richard..it is not the case now and hasn't been for a while. They were trying to set me up with a 64year "young" ;)...psychologist from an adjacent city, I declined. Am still kicking myself for not even agreeing to at least meet with him. This is just the short of the long, point being, I have chosen match.com and have had a profile with them for over a year. I prefer to read their profiles with photos and check out the distance and commonalities. I have been on over 100 "first" dates, and have made some friends a long the way..anyone interested in putting a face with the blog, my username with that service is: acutabove1224. I am very selective and..of course, my search continues..
Didnt mean to bore you with details....but I have had some fun along the way....my clients love my dating stories. I treat everyone the way I want to be treated and would never be disrespectful of another individual. But I can share without mentioning any names.. :)
Well, the lawnmower is threatening to start without me..NOT! lol
Will check back later...
All my best to you Richard, and I do mean that...lol
Marlyn
to anonymous
Why apologize for GOOD CONTENT, woman!? You are upfront, & I, for one, totally agree with both your statements...including the one about switching from a 6-month to a 1-month trip!
to marlyn from michigan
I love ya gal---but Holy Toledo!! "Love means never having to say you're "sorry"! (I don't really think that, but it sounds good in this context.) I mean, surely we aren't so afraid of stepping on the Emperors Toes that we don't notice he hasn't got any. [Oh well--BAD pun intended..either we stand behind our comments or we don't. I do. :)]
to ciao...P
This is selfish, I know, but I hope you've not got friends in London's very sad bomb incident. I did not in the OKC Bombing, but what was amazing to me about that one was that it was MOSTLY a LOCAL story -- until 9/11!!! Only then did it start being recounted as "a significant event".
Find the book "Who Let the Blogs Out" and/or "Blog"...both new. Yes, as blogmeister, R should be (but, of course isn't obligated to be) interested in checking in and blogging a bit more, IMO.
If John Kerry or Al Gore & who knows who else had put credence in the "swarm" of "blogs" putting out and/or refuting information about them and their statements, they would have been ahead of themselves instead of "swatting all the little stinging messages" which were in the NEW air of public opinion.
to soft rain
(Uh Oh!--More ammo --yummyyummy!)
Whoa!!--you been SMOKIN', gal?? that's a 'deal breaker, ya know! HA. LORDY,LORDY! I sure hope you are pulling our legs!!!
(Hey wait a minute!! This MUST be Richard writing again!) LOL!
If not ...I SURE hope your tongue was firmly planted in your cheek when you said of RR: "A wise man that waited for a very long time for the right moment, to be with the right women...so very nobel and romantic...like a true Knight that has battled the dragon and is now free to find and join his Lady."
But just in case your tongue was NOT in your cheek & you had your head up that computer..my sympathies. Now listen up. :)
Heck Fire!--by his own admission he's only been looking for a couple of years! That AIN'T so very long!! He says, "I was past 60 [he's now 64] & came to the stark realization I wanted to share the experience..." OR as he "begins his tale: the project "grew from the realization that after 10 years of being single, I miss...etc etc" Yeah--I know divorce takes time--can't believe mine took 5 years!! AARG! His took 2 --that leaves 8 years at least until......now
He's only just realized -duh- that travelling would be more fun with a woman along!
Oh yeah..."LET A WOMAN IN YOUR LIFE"...Rex Harrison...My Fair Lady. bbbzzzzzzzzz :)
Journalism, it is a-changin', folks!! find some political sites & blog in with YOUR opinion. We've definitely ALL got one - or two - or three! Ha!
Hi R
Relatively quiet 4th, except burns in the lap area of my 2 yr old grandson from a sparkler another boy was twirlling (grandson sitting on a bench merely observing with his uncle sitting next to him). He spent 4 1/2 hours waiting for service at the hospital. I wanted everyone reading these blogs to be aware that even a sparkler can cause damage. He's recovering nicely, in fact we went to the Alaska Zoo today (beautiful sunny day). Sunday we fly to our cabin where we will spend a couple of glorious days, wish you could all join us. Love this newly organized blog system, thanks.
KJS
to AK anonymous
at least it wasn't his eyes...
Hi Richard,
I'm curious if you have given any thought to how the woman you may chose may become the woman of your dreams and if she does not live in the same area, how would she visit her grandchildren, children, family and friends? You say how very important this is to you, which I think is great.
To all the lovely ladies on Richard's blog page, greetings from Central America.
Richard has suffered and lost someone special before; yet he has an undeniable need to keep forging ahead in a quest for romance, companionship and love.
That is the concept that first caught my attention and keeps me interested in reading the newsletters and your comments.
My advice to all of you, don't get bogged down in trivialities. Keep an open mind and a willing heart and trust your instincts. Richard deserves someone special who has all these special qualities and who trusts in him to make this journey a moral and ethical one for those of you who get the opportunity to join him in this special transformation.
Let us join in a quiet moment of prayer for the Londoners affected in today's terrorist bombings; that God will give them the courange and strength to recover from this act of terror.
LOL @ Happy
Thanks for clearing that one up for me. No to my knowledge none of my friends were involved in the London stuff. I'm amazed to hear you say that the Oklahoma bombings were local news mostly because in Europe it got huge coverage!! I get curious about the media in the US at times.
Will check that book when I get a chance. Interesting stuff about the political scene!
What do you reckon 'softrain' was smoking ......lol.
Marlyn .... good for you in the gym... bodybuilding contest ... wow... good luck with it. If you put the work in yeah you do deserve it :).
Belizegial ... lovely to hear from you and nice to meet you. I would ask you though, please do not get into giving advice to people here. We are capable of making up our own minds. Not being rude ... just asking :).
Love to all
Ciao ....... P
Hi,
I'm a first time/virgin blogger. It took me a bit of time to figure it out.
K, I think I might know who two of the tennis player's in the photo are. Rod Laver and Arthur Ashe?? Please tell me if either of those are correct. Thank you.
I am still amazed at how you can possibly do all the reading of US mail, e-mail you receive daily and do this all by yourself! Then have time to enjoy other very important things in your life (especially family, actually, that is the most important thing in life. IMHO.
I realize that my chances of being your travel companion is slim to zero, however, you have put much joy in my day just by reading your newsletters and hearing about your past experiences.
I turn 50 next month and I feel as though my "adventures" are just beginning. My children, number in five, ages 28, 27, 25, 22, and 20.
I lived the last 28 years just for them, their sports, their friends, their happiness and now feel it is my turn. Of course I am still there for them, always, but they do have their own lives to live and they do quite well! K, I've rambled enough. Richard you seem to be almost too kind, too perfect. Whomever you chose will be quite the fortunate one, or two, or six. Hope you take vitamins or summpin'.
I love the Ciao sign-off, and the Hugs that was a sign-off that another blogger used. Those are the two I use most when I
e-mail close friends.
I'll bet there are lots and lots of women out there that already feel an attachment to you, whether they are chosen or not.
You have made women speak positively about themselves, and sometimes finding something positive to say about ones self is difficult. I was brought up that it ws considered bragging when doing so. I know it was difficult for this lady. So bless you for that!
You seem so open and would be easy to get to know. Your parents raised you properly. You see I think most of who you are goes directly back to your family life, oh those formative years!
Do your grandchildren call you papa, popi, grandfather, grandpa, Richard, stud-muffin j/k with that one.
Well, I haven't mailed in a video only because it seems kind of, I don't know, like maybe one has to pass certain expectations with looks or something, maybe I'm way off base for stating this, but there it is. Sometimes I'm too honest for my own good.
Hey, I have a personal question. If Oprah didn't have "The Stedman or Steadman", would she have wanted to travel with you, do you think. She is so adorable and kind, with such sincerity. Not many made like that!! She's a good girl.
Hey I'm probably in blog violation for going on for sssssoooo long.
Oh one request could I be on the back-up team, or on call, or on active reserve list? j/k, no really not j/k.
It says a lot about a person when you are still very good friends with a former girlfriend and who knows Richard, maybe SHE is the one.
Did I blog incorrectly? J/W
So Hugs, Ciao, and Happy Hunting
Best Regards back attcha.
Deb Eddy
PS Will the Oprah show be inre-run staus anytime soon. I actually missed it and would really like to see it. Thanks.
Have a great week-end. D Wait one last thing. Did you ever see the movie "I Dreamed of Africa", it is a few years old, but a wonderful movie starring Kim Bassinger. I could watch it over and over. It is about the life of Kuki Goldman. If you ever have a few spare hours some evening I recommend it. Sleep well, BTW how did you get rid of the pinched nerve in your neck?
K, that's all truly, I'm going to go jump in the tub and relax myself.
Pain in the Neck......Try the Australian modality "Bowen" or "Bowtech" Google a therapist at the beach and one session should made you thank me.
to belizegial
Wilkommen :) I believe we ALL deserve someone special! And I also believe REAL life IS made up of trivialities. you know: "Don't Sweat the Small Stuff..It's ALL Small Stuff" by someone briefly well-known.
to ciao...P
Unfortunately, OK is a backwater to East Coast & West Coast media mentality. I was in PA at the time and it was just a 'blip on the screen.'
Re news here: I rely mostly on BBC NEWS, CCTV (China news) & LINK TV for a more unbiased view of things.
to debbyeddy
Welcome also. (wonder what's bringing all the new kids to the blog, guys?)
RR has lots o' help!! If RR seems "too kind, too perfect", it's for the same reason an absentee husband does: He ain't home! He's off somewhere!! HA! (In this case, we can hope he's off reading the bios, etc. :)
What is J/W please?? I figured out j/k.
to debbyeddy
AH! J/W =justwondering...right? got it! And you blogged just fine IMO. :)
Ladies: sorry to have to write this on here, but it seems the only way to reach Richard. I'll address you all at the end.
Hi Richard,
Received your newsletter today and was sort of hoping for more info about yourself but...FINALLY got the video "Pop & Me" so after doing some "teacher" work all morning, settled down to watch it this afternoon.
Well, now I don't care if I have to go on TV, be in a documentary, or whatever...I really want to meet you! I recognize personality attributes and values in you that I can relate to. Even though you sometimes came off as gruff and a bit controlling, I recognized great sensitivity and vulnerability in you. Before the ending (when Chris finally realizes that he was the "problem"), I could already see how much like you he really is, and that is why you clashed. I know this because when my daughter and I travelled to England and Scotland together, it happened to us - and we weren't together 24/7 for 6 months!
Okay, I have hesitated long enough to get that video made so don't make any decisions yet. My daughter is going to help me the first week of August (only time we're both available)and I'll send it in asap after that. I already sent you my bio and current photos to find out if you wanted me to send a video (reason: every man has a "type" he prefers) and you kindly replied Yes to my question.
I'd prefer the 6 months, of course, to be the one and only (that is if there's chemistry) because I can sell my house, quit my job (yes I'd do that) and make you my number one priority. We have a lot in common - from family history and make-up to loss of a loved one to having to re-identify ourselves at this stage of our lives. Now I know who I've been "saving" myself for 'lo all these years.
I've never read or heard anything about your ever coming to Vancouver Canada. If you do, you will realize that 6 months in Manhattan Beach and 6 months in Vancouver would be an ideal solution to being close to family and friends, plus satisfy the powers that be re taxes,pensions, etc.
Oh, by the way - I absolutely LOVED it when you were dancing in the rice paddies. That's exactly the sort of goofy thing I'd do! :)
See you soon,
Leslie
Hi to the ladies: okay, I've said it openly - I like him! At least so far. He's only human and has his faults as do we all. But of course there are hundreds more of you who feel the same way. And if I have to go public or go to some resort to "fight it out" j/k I'll do it. 'Course when/if I do meet him, I might not like him and then any of you can have him. j/k again. And then the rest of us can go on that chick cruise together and have a blast.
Re the London bombings, I woke up to the news this morning and was horrified. Someone here mentioned about the OKC bombing and how it was not covered much at the time. It definitely WAS covered here in Vancouver - we knew all about it as it was all over the news, that and the subsequent trial and execution. I am so lucky to live in a place where I can feel relatively safe.
I'm starting to feel like we're already friends through this blog. I look forward to reading your inputs here. I wish there were some way we could trade email addresses without it being on this blog thingy. Anyone have any ideas? I'm always up for meeting new people and making new friends.
Leslie from VanCan
Good evening fellow bloggers and Mr. R. Nice quiet evening here in the great Northwest. Took my dog for a walk and saw a young buck in the pasture of alfafa eating. He was not worried we were there. No hunting at this time of the year. I really look forward to reading the blogs each day and Happy you are a kick!! This is a wonderful way to communicate about feelings and dreams and desires. Everyone is talking about Pop and Me---I watched the trailer and it remined me of my son and husband. Both have died--my son 11 years ago and as you know my husband recently. They were so close--Mike, my son would call each day just to tell his dad he loved him. It was an exceptional relationship, I guess much like Richard's. Maybe some day I can watch.
Stepping out from what a person has known for so long is hard, however I find it stimulating and exciting---reading what you all say.
I am saddened by the loss in London. What can a person say? I went to OKC shortly after the bombing and it was incredible the
silence and like being on holy ground. Also went to NYC after 9-11 and it was cleaned up so did not have the same sense of loss at that time but got the Portraits of 9-11 from New York Times So powerful. Anyway---blessings to you ladies of the blog.
**to Mr Roe**
what if the one you choose does not have the money to buy gear for the trip? will clothes be covered in the expenses?
Hi Richard,
Given today’s news, a lot of what we’re saying here sounds pretty trivial, but I can't resist adding my comments on your eHarmony recommendation. I wasn’t surprised to hear it, as that dating service showed up on your web site early on, but I would have hoped you had tried it before endorsing it. When I first decided to try Internet matching, I signed up on eHarmony because it did, after all, seem a very logical approach. What I got for my 6-month membership was a no-better-than-fair personality profile (derived from a long and frustrating questionnaire), a site that found me almost no potential matches (and I couldn’t search for one myself), and an awkward communication protocol. I know I’m not everyone’s “cup of tea” (and vice versa!), but I don’t think I ever exchanged one real email with anyone during the entire time I was a member. Since a computer makes the selections, frequently neither of the parties involved has any interest in pursuing the suggested partner. Add to that eHarmony’s cost, which is higher than many of the other popular sites, and I’d give it a thumbs down. Match.com has a good personality test, lots of ways to search and match up, easy ways to communicate, and a profile format that allows you to give lots of significant information about who you are and who you’d like to meet. So I understand your pushing eHarmony (and appreciate your disclosure statement), but I’d advise the gals here to try Match first. 'Hope I haven’t put myself on your trash heap, but I felt the need to insert some balance on this issue. BTW, since my experience with eHarmony occurred a couple of years ago, if I’ve unfairly maligned them and they’d like me to try again, I’ll be happy to…but at their expense this time.
RR,
When or do you answer the questions asked in the blog's.
Were either Rod Laver or Arthur Ashe in the photo? I'm so curious to know!!
Dear Klew, we do not know one another but I hope you don't mind me sending condolences for the loss of your son and husband. Take care dear soul.
Actually, it is sort of strange. I don't think that any of us know one another, yet we find it sort of easy to chat, and that is special.
A friend of mine who is a few years older than I brought me a copy of the magazine More. I love it, it is the July/August edition. Has the lovely Jessica Lange on the cover, she looks great.
I'm in Blog heaven, I'm a blogger, I'm no longer Blog challenged.
Take care all and sleep well. It is currently 10:05 where I am and there is a news piece about the tube bombing in London, so gross.
Hi Richard,
I have a question for you, and I'm surprised that no one else has asked it. Why aren't you using eHarmony to find your match? Have you answered the eHarmony questions? Why would you recommend eHarmony if you are not using them?
Back to the tennis thing......its driving me batty. Arthur Ashe, Rod Laver, Jimmy Connors, Bjourn Borg (msp?)
Oh and I see that the answers will be in next weeks NL. Sorry for not paying better attention.
You are aware that PINK is the new BLACK! So you're cool.
DE
TENNIS TRIVIA
1974 Wimbledon Results
Men's Singles Champion:
Jimmy Connors defeated Ken Rosewall, 6-1, 6-1, 6-4
Women's Singles Champion:
Chris Evert defeated Olga Morozova, 6-0, 6-4
Doubles Champions:
Men-
John Newcombe and Tony Roche
Women-
Evonne Goolagong and Peggy Michel
Mixed Doubles Champion:
Owen Davidson and Billie Jean King
HI Belizegial
THNAK YOU so much for your words. Keep them coming. It seems that indeed some people are getting bogged down and they are not as much fun to read. So.. I skip the entry. not a problem. this is a free country or so we think!
As for the fine prints, if you are so upset about it. WHY DID YOU SENT YOUR VIDEO IN THE FIRST PLACE!? was it added on later or was it there originally! It is obvious that he was on Oprah (who usually follows up) and that he has a video out! HELLO??????
Have a great day! It is raining cats and dogs here!
Love, MyriaminVA
Good Morning Richard.. Ladies,
Another beautiful day here in Michigan..hot! I love it. Warms up our 10,000 lakes, brings in more tourists.
To Happy, When I say I'm sorry to Richard, I am really saying, respectfully, no offense intended.
If Richard tried to use e-harmony to find his mate, his membership would lapse before he had a chance to even see a photo of his date.
To Ciao...P, thank you, have been in training all my life, so to speak, time to take the leap.
Have another date this Saturday, fella from IN... :) Our profiles came up with an 83% match..we'll see.
Have to get ready for work, long day ahead.
Ladies..Richard...enjoy your day, will check back this evening.
All my best to you Richard and the bloggin' babes... :)
Marlyn
Happy Hi!
Yup, J/W=Just Wondering. When my son played football at University of Houston (qb) I used to go on a chatline and chatter's used ROTFLMAO lot's. I was always afraid to ask what it meant and one day I did, when I found out I felt like ROTFLMAO....Have a wonderful day.
Is Happy your real name? Debby is mine (grin)
Re: Last weekend & Grandkids ... a weekend in the sand at the beach with a young, sandy, laughing 2 year old was magic! Truly made my Forth fantastic, just the wond